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i dont get him, he says he dosent love me..?
heres the deal, its been like 2 years i like this guy, but he always told me he didnt like me , it was very clear, so i turned for another guy who liked me before, and now dosent ,but i do..the thing is, he knows i love him, its not a young childish thing. So we became ''fuckfriends'' so i could get close to him , thinking it could help me, we did things that couples did, he used to hold my hand when i was sad, always be there when i wasnt feeling right, always cheering me up, saying he cared, saying i was beautiful, anyways the perfect thing...then when i told him i loved him more and more, he told me we couldnt do stuff no more, it hurted me so bad, more the fact that i think he dosnet really wanna see me no more. Hes the kind of guy who just wants sex, but still..i told him we were like a couple and he said no, and when i said why he cared so much, he said well were friends...but it dosent make sense..how can u be so close to a person, without loving him...(her, me) i try to go to other guys , i try to go back to the other one, i try to date, or do ''stuff' i just cant..i just have him in my head..i cant do nothing. and i already had eating disorders and stress problems, and i feel like there coming back cause im loosing him, he used to help me alot, anyways im going on and on..the story cant stop:P, i dont know what to do no more, moving on? tried...keeping my feelings to myself , tried, being a bitch to him so he could get it, tried...i tried everything! someone do somethoing;...!!:( im not dumb and young , 17 and being a girl...is really important...(it said to put our gender!:)
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What you need is confidence and self respect. You need to believe in yourself and believe your beautiful. If you don't believe it, nobody will. Also, getting a boy to like you, especially horny little teenage boys, you def don't want to sleep with them. That makes them think you are easy, and once they get what they want, they lose interest. You need to walk away from this guy who used you. He isn't a good
person, and you should find someone who loves you and respects you. If you have an eating disorder, you need to get help. My friend almost died. I was with her and had to rush her to the hospital. She is still very sick and has a lot of health problems, but improving.
I hope everything works out for you, good luck
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To be honest with you hun it seems like he wanted sex and nothing more. Maybe what he saw as being friendly (cheering you up and holding you hand) you saw as something else. Guys do that sometimes, they show all the signs of liking you and when you ask them they say they just want to be friends or whatever.
I know how hard it is hun, I was stuck on this guy for years and I never thought I would get over him but I finally thought "fuck him".
He isnt good enough for you if he can treat you like this, because to me he wanted a "relationship/friendship" with you because of sex.
If it helps then ask him to be friends still but I dont know if that will help at all, maybe you just need some time away from him.
Surround your friends with family and friends, when you finally stop looking for love thats when it finds you. You will find a guy that is worthy of you love and loves you so much. Believe me hun.
I hope this helps.
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