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New relationship that's started out on sexual attraction
Posted Tuesday September 7 2010, 1:30 pm
After chasing me for 12 months I finally allowed my new friend to come over. He's visited twice and being spontaneous Aquarians, both times we've had sex. How do I move the relationship away from my apartment as I've already told him I'm not interested in a booty call relationship?
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ear fetish
Posted Tuesday September 7 2010, 1:02 am
my bf touches bites on and kisses my ears..and i reallllllly like it. normal or weird? anyone else have like it too?
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Cant Figure this guy out.
Posted Tuesday September 7 2010, 12:49 am
20/f
okay so theres this guy at work,I just starting working there like a month ago we worked together alot and talked, and he asked for my number.Well about a week and a half ago we hung out 3 times. He met my parents the third time we hung out because my parents always want to be introduced to the guy.So during our third date he was driving me home and he talked about us (he went away to college the next day, so it was cute he spent his last night with me) and he was saying how this happened to him twice he was hanging out with this girl and he messed it up the first time and he said he thinks he knows how to do it this time. He said to not think hes ignoring me hes just really busy with school and he said that if w...
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My bf is hiding things he does on the computer and facebook
Posted Tuesday September 7 2010, 12:40 am
I don't know what to do with him! I found out from my bff that my bf made a facebook group thing about our relationshp. I went and red a few things on it and it is personal and nothing anybody should know but us so I told him I knew he had a secret he was keeping from me but not what it was so he would tell me or something but he didn't. i kinda thought that he posted stuff and didn't think it was bad and I wanted to give him chances to say so but he just said he didnt have no secrets so i went back to read the rest and he had made it private only so now it is hidden from me.
I guess what I am asking is if he didn't think this was wrong why did he hide it when i found out? He still denies everything and now i got no proof...
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what should i do?
Posted Monday September 6 2010, 5:25 pm
i really like this guy and we hung out a couple times and made out for a long time and i'm really starting to get feelings. he used to text me all the time and now he doesn't so much anymore. one of his best friends told me that his last girlfriend was nuts so it scared him and thats why he doesn't want to get too serious with me. i'm really into him though but i'm not sure i would date him just yet because i'm still in that "getting to know him" stage, and i have a rough past with relationships too. but i just want to hang out with him but he seems to not want to because he doesn't want to get too serious. but i just love hanging out with him. what should i do?
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getting along with my husband
Posted Monday September 6 2010, 3:17 pm
My husband has been on short term leave from work for about three months now. could this be why we are not getting along and dont agree on anything right now? Normally he works out of town and comes home on the weekends.
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My boyfriend, his ex, her son, and jail.
Posted Monday September 6 2010, 12:31 pm
We'll start off with some history.. I met this guy back in Feburary or March, we met through my boyfriend at the time, and he lived right across the street from me. He was living there with his fiance and her child (her child w/ another man, he met her when she was pregnant and was there from them on). So, I started to hang out with them more and more. And as the time went on, he (we'll call him Tyler) started flirting with me, and telling me he thought I was hot and what not. We (me, him and his gf) went to the beach together, and while his gf (we'll call her Shannon), was on the beach, too cold to come in the water, we went. That's when he invited me to come to his dad's house where he's living at this point due to legal obligations, to s...
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why is it over?
Posted Monday September 6 2010, 11:01 am
Hey guys I'm 18/f. Basically last week me and my bf had an argument over something really lame! It was nothing serious. For the next few days I ended up being moody with him b/c of it, and I knew I was in the wrong. I told my bf It wasn't fair that I was being moody with him all the time so said maybe for the best we should break up. I asked if I could think about it. He said yes but kept demanding an answer from me. I said I would make one the next day. The next day he says he is questioning our relationship now. I told him I wanted to be with him and he said he doesn't want to break up but its probably for the best. He kept telling me how much he loves me and wants to stay friends and he still said goodnight sweet dreams to me. I said I c...
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Should I tell him Im in love with him?
Posted Monday September 6 2010, 6:24 am
So on the weekend I met a guy. He's 34 and I'm 19 and he lives about 3 hours away from me. Basically I made out with him the first night we met. The next night we slept together, and again the next morning and he was such a gentle person not just sexually but emotionally, didn't pressure me to do anything I didn't want to do. Now, I'm finding myself to be thinking of him constantly. He told me he cared about me but he wouldn't be able to see me much because he's always busy working long hours, which is fair enough considering he works a good job in the city. I can't talk to him until Thursday because at the moment his phone is being fixed and he won't have it back until Thursday, he said he'll contact me when he gets it...But I don't think ...
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What do I do about my Ex?
Posted Monday September 6 2010, 12:22 am
So me and my ex go way back...a year ago in february. So like feb 09. Anyways, we were a thing for a while, until he turned around and chose my best friend over me. Which of course crushed me. And then 3 months later he begged for me back for 2 weeks until finally i forgave him and started dating him a month later. After 2 months of dating we broke up, because I had just lost feelings ever since things went bad. We haven't been very close since, and it's always been kind of awkward around him. I'm not sure what to do, because I want to be close with him. I want to be able to talk to him again without their being any tension.
The truth is, I still kind of have feelings for him...It's really hard because I know he's way over me...
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my boyfriend is stressing me out
Posted Sunday September 5 2010, 11:29 pm
Ok, so this will be pretty long. (sorry). I am 17 and my boyfriend is almost eighteen. We have been together for almost three years straight, and we have had our ups and downs. I understand in relationships everyone argues but when we argue its brutal. We have discussed things we need to work on, mine for instance is not to get an attitude so much and not to yell but to speak calmly. So everytime we argue I dont do those things and I make sure not to at all. But its not good enough. No matter how quiet or nicely I talk its like we still argue just as bad, if not worse. Whenever we argue its like its always my fault, and he makes sure I know he feels that way every second of the argument. It's like he tells me every single thing I do wrong, ...
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Unsure About My Boyfriend
Posted Sunday September 5 2010, 4:00 pm
Hi I am 18f. I have a boyfriend that is the same age. He is respectful, understanding, loving, and the first nice guy I have really known. I have known him for five months and we have been dating for the last two of those. Before him, I used to think that I should always be single, just be friends, and not date. This is because dating can be complicated and all the guys I have known are jerks. Also, I have been hurt to many times by people in the past.
He lives 35min away from me, we talk almost everyday, and he comes to see me whenever he can. He has a warm heart, open arms, and I have never felt this way towards a guy before. He makes me smile.
He is the kind of guy where I just want to be friends wi...
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is it real?
Posted Sunday September 5 2010, 4:21 am
Okay I was dating this guy for 7 months. We dated 3, almost 4 years ago and we broke up because his mom said our maturity levels were completely different. I was 14 and he was 17.
Now Im 17 & hes 20.
The day after we broke up, he made me a pinky promise that he would propose to me on my graduation day in 2011.
A couple of months ago, he came by to see my family because while we dated, my family got really attached to him. When he came over, I got butterflies, and I felt as if my knees could colopase. Its been 3 years, and yet he still gets to me. The way he says my name made my heart skip beats like crazy, and the way he smells just gives me chills. Butt we was sitting in his truck and he was...
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Girlfriend Trouble.
Posted Sunday September 5 2010, 2:21 am
Im 18 male she is 21 female. So basically over the summer I fell in love with a girl i met in early july and finally asked her to be my girlfriend in august. We live 2 hours away and neither of us can drive. I spent 3 weeks in August at her house (she lives alone) and we had an amazing time. Although we argued a bit and stuff cause we dont know eachother that well. She just broke up with her boyfriend of a few years and I guess still has feelings for him or whatever. I only asked her out while I was there because I didnt know when we would see eachother again due to school for us. I told her multiple times i understand if she wants to say no right now because she still has feelings for her ex. I asked her out and a few days later she said y...
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He is so confusing! What do i do??
Posted Sunday September 5 2010, 1:27 am
So i am 18 years old and this guy that i worked with was a 30 year old man that is married and has kids. When he first started working there i was attracted to him immediately. He was the manager. We flirted and stuff and he kinda made it known that he was into me but didnt say so directly. He would tell me everyday how i made his day and he loves seeing me. I had a huge thing for him. So he finally gave me his number one night. I would tell him a lot of stuff cause he was my friend. So things got kind of intense when he told me that he wanted to be with me and that im every mans dream and i just dont relize how amazing i am.So we texted all the time and one day i told him i couldnt talk to him anymore but soon said i didnt mean it and i lo...
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His actions are confusing me!
Posted Sunday September 5 2010, 12:53 am
So i am 18 years old i liked this guy i worked with since the first time i saw him. We flirted a lot and he made it known he was in to me. I soon found out he was married and had two kids. He took it to the next level and gave me his number but was casual about it. I knew where it was going. We texted a lot and he told me everything a girl would want to hear. he seemed so sincere. I truly believed him. He wont respond to my text or calls. What do i do? I think i love him. I told him once that i didnt want to talk anymore but then told him i didnt mean that. do you think he may be sincerly hurt by the things i said or does he just care? Please give me advice.
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My boyfriend's friends think I'm ugly!
Posted Saturday September 4 2010, 8:22 pm
I started dating my boyfriend last month and he treats me really good. The problem is that his friends really don't like me. They keep telling me that I'm hideous, ugly, and skanky and that he deserves so much better. I haven't really said anything to him about it but he never says I'm pretty or beautiful like guys are suppose to do. It's weird. What should I do? Do you think he thinks I'm not pretty? Should I tell his friends off?
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Should I Make My Boyfriend Pay Child Support?
Posted Saturday September 4 2010, 8:08 pm
I got pregnant & had a baby last month. My boyfriend got me pregnant because he didn't want to use a condom so it's all his fault. I only let him see my daughter when we go out like on a date but she don't stay with him at all & I care for her all the time. Mom said he needs to be a man and support us since he's the one that got me pregnant. I told him I want him to get a job after school and give me money to support my daughter because I'm in school too and I can't raise a baby and go to school AND work a job. He needs to take responsibility. He got mad and was like it's just as much his fault as it is mine that I got knocked up and he was real mad about it all and said if I make him pay me money then he's gonna break up with me an...
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My Girlfriend Lied About Her Age and is Under Age / Illegal
Posted Saturday September 4 2010, 7:57 pm
I been dating this girl for about 4 months now and we've been having sex all the time. I'm 22 and she told me she just turned 18 when we hooked up at first. Last night she stayed at my house and was like she needed to tell me something and told me she's really 15. I dont know what to do because that's illegal and I dont want to be put in jail for this. I'm getting paranoid she's going to tell her folks and her parents are going to press charges since she's underage / a minor. What do I do?
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Mixed emotions are killing me;
Posted Saturday September 4 2010, 7:27 pm
Im 17/f , & I will be 18 in Nov. Michael is 16 & will be 17 in Oct. He is the youngest guy I have dated. We have been dating for 4 months. He's my first serious relationship I have had since my ex Thomas in 06'. When he first asked me out, I said yes, but I felt like I made the wrong decision cause I was scared of what people would think of him cause he isn't the cutest thing in the world, but he's sweet. I gave him a chance, cause I didn't want to be shallow & miss out on a good guy. After 2 months, I told Michael that I had an ex (Thomas) coming over to see my family cause he was really close to them, & Michael didn't care at all; he trusts me. Thomas & I sat in his truck just bringing up our past, & it brought bac...
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