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why is it over?
Hey guys I'm 18/f. Basically last week me and my bf had an argument over something really lame! It was nothing serious. For the next few days I ended up being moody with him b/c of it, and I knew I was in the wrong. I told my bf It wasn't fair that I was being moody with him all the time so said maybe for the best we should break up. I asked if I could think about it. He said yes but kept demanding an answer from me. I said I would make one the next day. The next day he says he is questioning our relationship now. I told him I wanted to be with him and he said he doesn't want to break up but its probably for the best. He kept telling me how much he loves me and wants to stay friends and he still said goodnight sweet dreams to me. I said I can't be friends with him it will be too hard. We are meeting up to talk about it. I asked if he can re-think his decision and we can talk about it and he said he isn't sure if it will make a difference but we'll see. Do you think there's any hope for us?? We both love eachother a lot and it was only last week he was telling my friends how happy he is with me, and planning surprises for my birthday. What should I do?
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ah well , I think this guy , really does like you , and everything. He is just scared since you said that to break up , he was probabaly not expecting that from you , and did not want to hear it , but since you brought it up , he is questioning himself now, in order to see if anything bad will happen. There is hope if he was just saying how much he loves you and planning surprises for your birthday , because if someone loves you that much and just magically a week later does not love you anymore , then that was not really love . I think there is hope and that is good you asked him to re-think it , because it shows you care about him , and you want him and everything as you said you can not stay friends with him because it will be too hard . I think what you should do is you guys should meet up ASAP and try again , you never know where it could end up. My advice to you is that there is still hope and you should just talk to him face-to-face and tell him what you feel and actually show like you mean it. Also , take it slow , do not rush back to where you ended , you could make it worse , so just step back take a breather and be glad you still got him.
Good luck girl :)
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i think he is unsure of how you are feeling and doesn't want to be left in the dust so he is protecting himself by telling you the same thing. he wants to see now that you gave him an ultimatum how you will react when he gives you one. he wants to see you much you will beg him to take you back. if he is worth it then tell him that the break cleared things up and you would like another chance. also look at the situation and see if anything has changed since he was telling your friends how happy he was with you. if the only thing that changed is you then he wants to test you to see how important he is to you. good luck!
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