So i am 18 years old i liked this guy i worked with since the first time i saw him. We flirted a lot and he made it known he was in to me. I soon found out he was married and had two kids. He took it to the next level and gave me his number but was casual about it. I knew where it was going. We texted a lot and he told me everything a girl would want to hear. he seemed so sincere. I truly believed him. He wont respond to my text or calls. What do i do? I think i love him. I told him once that i didnt want to talk anymore but then told him i didnt mean that. do you think he may be sincerly hurt by the things i said or does he just care? Please give me advice.
Girl...come on and get a grip here. Leave this guy alone. He has a wife and two small children to take care of.
Find a guy who is AVAILABLE. I don't want to hear how wonderful he is or how much you think you love him. Move on. He isn't available to you or anyone else.
quazzie answered Tuesday September 7 2010, 12:02 am: I see no future in this relationship to be honest :(
Your whole relationship is based on a lie so don't expect him not to lie to you when he wants to jump ship to another girl. I think you should break it off, and not make contact with him. He is married with two kids and you'll be hurting them all if you become between them. It sounds like he'll say anything to make you like him but it is all just words!
Your eighteen! You have so much life to live! Seriously, there is someone out there way better for you then him hun.
nicolegreenie answered Monday September 6 2010, 5:05 pm: It's never smart to be a homewrecker. It only brings drama, unless you like that. If he's not responding to your calls it means that he is probably around his wife or scared that the calls may lead his family into something. You need to realize that he is in a relationship and has a family. What if you had a husband who you loved that was cheating? It would not make you feel good. Also if he is interested then he will only cheat again if you gain a relationship with him. you say he made it known that he was into you. it seems like he just cares about you and he doesn't want anything more than action. i would need more details to fully assess the situation. good luck. just remember he has someone at home who he is committed to. [ nicolegreenie's advice column | Ask nicolegreenie A Question ]
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