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Typical Boy Confusion...advice?
Posted Sunday September 19 2010, 9:37 am
Okay, well I'll try making this as short as possible, if that's possible. So I met this guy while I was up north with one of my friends. I'm a sophomore in college and he's a freshman. Ironically, we live in the same town (I go to the university here and he lives here and goes to the community college). So of course, I thought it was fate haha. Anyways, we started talking quite a bit after meeting up north, mainly through texting, and he continuously told me how he was gonna be staying at my place (I have an apartment this year) all the time and how we were gonna be hanging out all the time. I'm pretty hesitant when it comes to guys, cause I certainly don't like to get my hopes up, so if he hadn't given me these false hopes I wouldn't be so...
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Jealousy: I Got Jealous, And I Don't Even Know Why?
Posted Sunday September 19 2010, 12:55 am
16/f
I've been with my boyfriend for about 10 months. We're really honest with each other and trust each other and all that. So we have a pretty good relationship. It's just I get so jealous easily. I don't show it at all. But I hate the feeling. It's just whenever he's talking to a girl. Usually if I think she's really pretty or I know he used to like or if he has been with her it really gets to me.
One time, he saw one of his exes. He just was like, "oh great. she's a stalker" I didn't know her but I got jealous, even though he doesn't like her. Why is that? How do I deal with this and make it go away? I know for a fact I'm not gonna lose him and I don't feel like I am. I even tell myself that. I don't have a reas...
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She was like a trapped bird who needs to fly, but I still want her back
Posted Saturday September 18 2010, 10:14 pm
My girlfriend and I have been dating for 7 months, and had a great summer living together, but once we got back to our normal school routine, and she got a new place with new roomates, she started to seem really distant. We started having way less sex, and she would sometimes seem like she had a coldness to her that I cannot really explain. She always said she was "tired" but sometimes admitted her depression, but didnt ever blame it on me or us. However, I could tell our relationship dynamic was part of the problem. The sex never really picked up to be what it used to. We continued loving each other very much and still did romantic things together, but for some reason she continued to seem distant, close, distant, close, distant,...
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is he playing me?
Posted Saturday September 18 2010, 7:39 pm
I'm the same girl who asked this question...
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=586062
so this same guy from the previous question told me he liked me and he hadnt stopped liking me.we were talking later and he asked me if i would be friends with benefits him because he likes to flirt with a lot of girls and he wants to be "emotional" and "physical" friends with benefits.I told him i didnt want to do that and he said he had to decide what he wanted to do.i kinda feel like hes trying to keep me liking me so that if nothing else works out ill still be here for him.what should i do!?is he playing me!?
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Ever had a bad relationship, break up, get together again and it works?
Posted Saturday September 18 2010, 2:12 pm
17/f
has anyone ever expierenced a bad relationship with a boy/girlfriend? Broke up.. didnt talk for a year or two met eachother again later in life, rekindled the love and are together today?
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Mixed signals.
Posted Saturday September 18 2010, 1:26 pm
Let me start off by saying I am sixteen and female and the boy I like is also sixteen. For this, I am going to refer to myself as S and the boy a A. A and I have known eachother since we were littl because our brothers did sports together but we never really talked and got to know eachother until this year. He is such a sweet boy and I am really starting to fall for him and I thought he was too but like I said, he is giving me mixed signals. One day I think he likes me so much and the next it seems like he hates me. We walked to second together and we talked about him and he really opened up to me and said that he hates how people think he's so perfect and how when he comes to school he puts on a new face that he can't let anyone see that h...
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love life lol
Posted Saturday September 18 2010, 3:13 am
Hey..I'm in 8th grade and some 7th and 8th graders said I was "thick." At first I thought it was a really bad thing, but I found out its a really good thing that they think that. I'm wondering..what your views on it are...what you think it means...Do you think guys like girls like that? Thanks!
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Posted Saturday September 18 2010, 2:43 am
My husband always want things to be his way,he control my life,i can't do anything of my way,cant even go out by myself,he cant even allow me to use my own money.he's in his 30th while im in 20th.what should i do about it
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I'm Soooo Confusedd-Helpp!
Posted Saturday September 18 2010, 1:26 am
What does it mean when you keeping thinking about one of your exs when you have a boyfriend? Should i take it as a sign?? What does it mean..
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boyfriend lied
Posted Saturday September 18 2010, 1:18 am
Why do men lie to their girlfriends? Don't they understand how much it hurts us?
He asked me about how many guys I've been with since I met him (I've been with just him since we became exclusive though). I told him the honest truth (although I thought he knew because I dropped plenty of hints as they happened, oh and I should add he asked me this question 5 months after we became exclusive). I was ashamed of my past, but I wanted to be honest with him so I told him how many. He called me a ho pretty much and we almost broke up. When I asked him in turn how many girls he's been with since he met me, he said just you, I don't do s*** like that. This made me feel even more ashamed and worse about myself. Anyways he forgave me, ...
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What's going on with them two? :(
Posted Saturday September 18 2010, 12:36 am
20 Female. I'm so sad right now, I'm sorry if this is really long I will return the favor to anyone who can give me advice I really need it :(
So I've always had a thing for my good friend Joe (He's 18, almost 19). I've known him for about 5 years now. He was dating this girl Maria for 3 years ..his first and only real relationship. Basically she got too clingy and he started getting annoyed so their senior year in high school he broke it off with her. They still hung out all the time, obviously were still having sex and people never knew they even broke up because they acted like they didn't. I think they got back together for a little bit and then broke up once again. He tells me everything and I guess she got really annoyi...
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My boyfriend and I can't decide wether to stay together
Posted Saturday September 18 2010, 12:06 am
Well i am 17 years old and have been with this guy on and off for 2 years. We always break up then get back together but he had a child when we were apart. I truly love him and claims to feel the same way but he always brings his friends into our relationship causing it to fall apart. Is it best for us to be together and work it out or not?
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why is he doing this
Posted Friday September 17 2010, 11:35 pm
ok so i met this boy last year. and we frist went out last year but it was only for like 2 weeks. then he dumped me. we still talked though like on the internet. then i got a phone and we texted. then i didnt talk to him for a while again. then we started talking again but i didnt see him again until april of this year. and all the sudden he kissed me i was left confused. i hung out with him the next day but we didnt do anything. after that we didnt talk again. and then in august he randomly messaged me saying he wanted to see me. then i said ok and we met up and he kissed me again.. and later that day he sent me a message saying he wanted me back and i said ok. so i guess that i was his gf again but it didnt seem like it and after that we ...
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wife's given up being intimate... hardly a kiss or hug, just anger
Posted Friday September 17 2010, 11:05 pm
weve had 10 years of love and 10 years of friction. now its reduced to edginess, short visits about logistics and lack of $.
I am trying to lead my wife back to love but she is resentful, angry and almost wants me out of her way/life. obviously no sex for years (3)
any ideas on how to improve our marriage
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Who to choose my boyfriend or bestfriend?
Posted Friday September 17 2010, 8:56 pm
About a year ago my best friend and her bf set me up on date and after a while we started being boryfriend/girlfriend. My bestfriend started getting mad at my bf for "taking me away from her" or him getting mad at the stupidest things. So I had to make a decision between my bf or bestfriend and I chose my bf.After a year of barely talking to my bestfriend we started talkig again to try to make things work except my bf doesn't like the when I'm with her because they hate each other.now a year later I'm confronted with having to make the same decision..my boyfriend or bestfriend. My bf hates my bestfriend so much that he's making me choose.I have fun with both of them and just don't know who to choose.who should I pick? (17/f/Ca)
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How to do second base
Posted Friday September 17 2010, 8:14 pm
13/f my bf and i have been making out and i want to go farther. hes cool with it and said hed even go all the way with me but i dont want to go all the way yet. i want to go to like second base. how do you do second base with your bf? i mean wat IS second base really so i know what to do?
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1 month gift?
Posted Friday September 17 2010, 7:38 pm
17/m .hi there.been going out with this girl for nearly a month now and was wondering whether i need to get her a gift .if yes then what would be good things to get?was thinking just some chocolates and a card.anyway.Thanks:)
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Need help on deciphering reoccuring dream
Posted Friday September 17 2010, 6:36 pm
Hi!
I know that dreams can be really random and now one can tell for sure what they mean but I would like to have some of your thoughts on a reoccurring dream I have.
I have been dating a girl for about half a year, and now we are doing a long distance thing. I will see her in a few months though. I'm happy being with her but we have been apart now for about a month.
Over the past few weeks it's been odd because I've had 4 or 5 different romantic and sexual dreams about being with various girls I have never even met. I'm a 22 year old guy so I bet it's relatively normal but I just think it's odd that I have never had a sexual dream about my girlfriend even though we are active. When I wake up I al...
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confused about a guy's behaviour
Posted Thursday September 16 2010, 11:47 pm
so during the summer this guy asked me out and told me to text him with the answer. i told him i was busy and couldn't go, but i'm really sorry. the truth was that i didn't like him. i didn't want to break his heart, so i didn't tell him the truth. but he never replied and didn't talk to me for the rest of summer.
ever since we've been back at school, he's been acting soo weird. he saw me alone waiting for my friend one time, and then starting telling me that i'm depressed and emo and crazy(which i am not). then he stopped talking to me again. but then today i saw him in the hall, and he pretty much told me that I think he's hot and looks good. i was like wtf and walked away.
he's really getting on my nerves, but everytime i ...
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A Question About Marriage, Weddings and Rings
Posted Thursday September 16 2010, 8:41 pm
I want to marry my girlfriend but i dont have any where close enough of money to do it what do i do? and what is the different between engagment rings and wedding rings?
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