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Mixed signals.


Question Posted Saturday September 18 2010, 1:26 pm

Let me start off by saying I am sixteen and female and the boy I like is also sixteen. For this, I am going to refer to myself as S and the boy a A. A and I have known eachother since we were littl because our brothers did sports together but we never really talked and got to know eachother until this year. He is such a sweet boy and I am really starting to fall for him and I thought he was too but like I said, he is giving me mixed signals. One day I think he likes me so much and the next it seems like he hates me. We walked to second together and we talked about him and he really opened up to me and said that he hates how people think he's so perfect and how when he comes to school he puts on a new face that he can't let anyone see that he's hurting inside or mad. Then he would ask me what class I have and we wouldtalk about our teachers and such. The best part of our walk happened next, he complimented me and told me my hair looks awesome (: but my room came up so I had to go in and leave him to walk alone. This walk only happened for me to show I was not mad at him anymore because that previous Friday, I had gotten mad at him him, when I told him I was mad, he said if he had a gun, he wouldn't alive. That made me scared so I went back to th back of the bus where he was sitting and we talked and we were okay so that is why the walked happened on Monday. Now, we have first together, which is why we walk to second together and everytime I scan the room or glance over at him 95% of the time, he is looking at me, but I'm not complaining. I like when it happens because he isn't a sissy that looks away when he realizes I look at him and sometimes we look into eachothers eyes for what seems like forever. My friend thinks there is a spark between us so the other day she talked to him and he had foun out that this girl has a crush on him and he sai that she was gross and then he said "does S have a crush on me?" and my frien answeredd him by sayig she wasn't sure because if I do, she would have expected me to tell her. Then he said i am awesome and that I'm pretty pretty. But he said he's still trying to get over his ex bcause she was "amazing." And my friend told him that he should get to know me better because we are pretty alike and he thanked her and smiled. Then she went to A's friend, J, and asked if he knows who A likes and he said "no I don't. Why? Does S like him?" which completely caught my friend off guard. Why me? I have also come to realize that J and i hav been talking alot recently and he has been nicerthan normal which is weird because he used to be rude to me before. I had just talked to A last night and I was saying how I'm mad we don't walk together to second and he looked at me and said uhh we only walked together once. So I explained to him both times and he sai he doesn't remember the second but he doesn't like walking with me if I'm with my other friends. Last night he had also been joking that I hate him so him and J made a blackade with their bodies, so I couldn't get to where I wanted. This might just be a coincidence but whn I was standing ouside, he walked by me singing "have you seen this girl, she's been running though my head" my heart melted a little.

Now, do you think the song was a coincidence? My friend said she heard him singing inside humor that song so idk. Do you also think he likes me, if so what about his ex and why didn't he tell his friend he likes me? I just want to be with him..


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Rene5009 answered Friday September 24 2010, 7:21 pm:
Idk if the song was a coincidence or not but I'm pretty sure he likes you :), as for his ex, he'll get over her in time don't worry, get to know him a little more and then tell him how you feel :)

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