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Question Posted Saturday September 18 2010, 2:43 am

My husband always want things to be his way,he control my life,i can't do anything of my way,cant even go out by myself,he cant even allow me to use my own money.he's in his 30th while im in 20th.what should i do about it


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Smartone answered Saturday September 18 2010, 11:59 am:
What would happen if you defy him and go out by yourself and use your money as you please? What do you think he'll do?

You don't say where you are from, but if you are living in the USA, he cannot hold you a prisoner. There are laws against that.

Only you know your husbands temperament. Only you know if he will get violent. Has he ever been violent with you? If you do the things he forbids you, will he harm you, physically?

What you do depends on how how much courage you have. You could discuss this with him and tell him you no longer wish to live like this and he needs to lighten up on his need for control. If that fails, well, you know where the door is.

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