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confused about a guy's behaviour
so during the summer this guy asked me out and told me to text him with the answer. i told him i was busy and couldn't go, but i'm really sorry. the truth was that i didn't like him. i didn't want to break his heart, so i didn't tell him the truth. but he never replied and didn't talk to me for the rest of summer.
ever since we've been back at school, he's been acting soo weird. he saw me alone waiting for my friend one time, and then starting telling me that i'm depressed and emo and crazy(which i am not). then he stopped talking to me again. but then today i saw him in the hall, and he pretty much told me that I think he's hot and looks good. i was like wtf and walked away.
he's really getting on my nerves, but everytime i try and tell him that he just doesn't listen. what am i supposed to do???
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this guy is all about pride considering you didn't want to go out with him he's mad about it he has a problem and it seems that he still likes you so since talking doesn't work with him start hanging out with some guy friends this will show him you dont care and he wouldn't really mess with you he'd probably be afraid then after just send him a text and tell him how you feel and tell him that just because you dont wanna go out with him it doesnt give him the right to treat you like that you never know maybe he just might respond in a positive way
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I agree with the other two post. The guy is really insecure and probably not that mature. I'm guessing you are both in High school??
If you haven't told him already you need to tell him straight up that you don't like him. Don't try to be nice about it, cause if you tip toe around it and he senses there's a chance he'll still keep at it.
After you tell him that be sure to ignore him if he still continues. He'll move on eventually.
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Dont aknowledge him. Ignore him, act like it doesnt bother you even if it really does. Most likely he will stop sooner or later. The only reason he is doing it right now is because he still likes you and its a way of getting a reaction out of you.
Hope i helped(:
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Keep walking away. Don't engage with the conversations.
He's just insecure and trying to convince himself that there is something wrong with you if you don't want to date him.
Some guys are just stupid enough to think that if a girl is willing to speak to him, she must be into him.
It's pretty standard, and you probably can't change his mind about it. The best thing you can do is not feed his crazy. Don't laugh or joke with him. Tell him he is dead wrong and walk away. Don't answer questions or get dragged into debates about it. Just tell him no and leave. If you can't leave, silence is better than arguing with him.
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