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why is he doing this
ok so i met this boy last year. and we frist went out last year but it was only for like 2 weeks. then he dumped me. we still talked though like on the internet. then i got a phone and we texted. then i didnt talk to him for a while again. then we started talking again but i didnt see him again until april of this year. and all the sudden he kissed me i was left confused. i hung out with him the next day but we didnt do anything. after that we didnt talk again. and then in august he randomly messaged me saying he wanted to see me. then i said ok and we met up and he kissed me again.. and later that day he sent me a message saying he wanted me back and i said ok. so i guess that i was his gf again but it didnt seem like it and after that we still talked but i didnt see him again until last week and i seen him like 4 days in a row. the last time i really talked to him was sunday and now i think he is like ignoring me like not texting back and stuff. i dont know why and he has pulled this stuff on me before but those times i didnt care as much. but now i do and i am upset its like he only talks to me when he feels like it. what should i do? why is he doing this
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sweetie mooooooooove on! the second you move on and are happy he will beg for you back as long as youre sittin around waitin he will come and go as he pleases
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"...he is known as a player and i am thinking mabye thats why he is doing this."
Ya think?!!! Dump him. He thinks he's all that and he's wrong. He's a jerk and it shows.
Move on.
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Hey there,
It sounds as if he isn't being real with the relationship. I mean, if he really wanted you back he would stick to his word. Him kissing you and leaving is obviously a mixed signal. If he really felt that strongly for you, he wouldn't kiss you then leave you hanging now. If I were you, I would talk to him. Tell him you would like to be his girlfriend, but only if he treats you right. He doesn't seem to be treating you the way he should. He may be doing this because he doesn't know what to say to you. He could be doing this because he isn't sure about his feelings. He could also be doing this, just because he is busy and cannot reply right then.
Whatever the reason, he should be able to tell you why he is doing this when you ask him. You do not deserve someone who is only going to talk to you or be with you when it is "convenient" for him. Relationships do not work that way. Talk to him and let him know you are confused and upset. If he is a nice guy, he should care and change what he is doing that makes you feel this way. If he doesn't seem to be changing... I think you know the answer (he is not right for you). Guys can be misleading, so trust your instincts... they will let you know what is meant to be <3
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