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How to do second base
13/f my bf and i have been making out and i want to go farther. hes cool with it and said hed even go all the way with me but i dont want to go all the way yet. i want to go to like second base. how do you do second base with your bf? i mean wat IS second base really so i know what to do?
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Really consider this: Too much of what you're doing now, will start to feel like lust, and not love anymore. While you are still too young to get serious with him, you're also too young to go any farther with him in terms of intimacy. If you guys do decide to go farther, I don't think the relationship will be real anymore, and it will lose it's magic.
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okai here to put it bluntly second base is fingeing dry humping mabie oral sex haind jobs
whatever you can thinkk of that yu feel comftable with thats not sex remeber your only 13
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"How to do second base"
Look here. I'm going to tell you something personal but it's all to get you to see that you need to think about this just a little more and maybe reconsider.
I dated a guy last year, I was fourteen. He was sixteen so he always wanted to be going further. I trusted him and we went to second base (which includes fingering and handjobs) at the time I thought everything was fine and dandy. Then he pressured me into third base (blowjob) you said your boyfriend wants to go all the way and you don't. Be careful. It is so much easier than you think to be talked into something. And when you think you love someone and you think you can trust them you might make mistakes.
I regret the handjob, fingering, blowjob, everything. See the trust and physical connection involved in those things make the break about a million times harder. And the younger you are, the harder it is to deal with. I'm still getting over what happened and you know what?? He told just about my entire shcool how far we went. People still talk about it. Doing things with a guy should be a lot bigger decision than most girls make it. To trust someone and be comfortable enough to do those things and then have it blow up in your face?? It hurts more than you can imagine. I don't think any girl should have to go through it.
So what I'm saying is if you really want to go to second base, go to second base. But I'm asking you to think about it just a little bit more and decide if it's really worth it. It wasn't for me.
Goodluck!
xoxo
LoLLiPoP
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wow 13?! you should actually be playing baseball instead of using it as sexual innuendo.
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