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As a woman, I can't talk to women.


Posted Wednesday October 23 2013, 4:47 pm

I'm 18 years old and I just started school at an women's college. I'm starting to think it was a mistake.
I wanted to go to this school because I really want to make close girl friends. I can't seem to do it. I just don't know how to talk to girls. I feel like I never know what to say, or how to respond to things they say that can continue the conversation. Maybe it's because I'm too used to being around my close group of male friends, but how can it really be that different?
I don't know what could make me so... awkward around women. I know it's not nervousness because of romantic or sexual feelings- I am in a relationship and not interested in dating or sex.

I have social anxiety as well, which I had been doin...

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why hasnt my favorite grandmas death hit me yet? it doenst seem real


Posted Wednesday October 23 2013, 1:35 pm

My favorite grandmother passed away last week on my birthday and wheni found out I was upset and cried a lot. but it still doesn't feel to me like she is really gone. Why don't I feel sad or why aren't I crying? could it possibly be that she is at peace now so I feel so too? I don't know but I feel bad because I should be super upset

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abt my love m a female last weak i gt 25years


Posted Wednesday October 23 2013, 1:32 pm

I am from india
Whom wth m loving he s nt loving me
Bt m loves so much
Since 8years
still nw m nt meet him alone
How did know he becomes my lifepatner

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pcr and rns hiv test


Posted Wednesday October 23 2013, 1:25 pm

Could anyone tell me if i can get a pcr and rna test from my own doctor, and approx how much it costs i cant really afford to pay but if this test is as accurate as everybody is telling me then i must have it done, ive had duo antibodies/antigen but these have back negative i dont know how reliable the duo test is after 18 months of exposure with no risks since 04.04.12 18 months ago

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Do he like me?


Posted Wednesday October 23 2013, 1:21 pm

Hi 14/F. So this guy and me are friends and i really really like him* i don't know if he likes me* he say he loves me and hold my hand for almost 2min. Do he like me?

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My bestfriend like me*


Posted Wednesday October 23 2013, 1:19 pm

Hii 14/F
my best guy friend like me* i don't like him in that way and i don't want to ruin our friendship* how do I let him down easy

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what does it mean when someone say I well take you for granite


Posted Wednesday October 23 2013, 11:13 am

I had someone it to me but dont know what it means

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I can't keep trusting my boyfriend who is a pill addict.


Posted Wednesday October 23 2013, 4:09 am

First, the backstory. I have been with my boyfriend for 3+ years. I have 4 children from a previous marriage and 1 child with him. She is going to be 2. I am 31. We live together. I am very much in love with everything about my boyfriend but one thing. He's addicted to Roxys and at this point, i think any pill he can sniff up his nose. He's not wanting to stop. No, he wasn't doing it the first almost year we lived together. But, when he did start doing it, he hid it from me. Then stopped. Then hid it again a few months after. Then stopped. Then, he hid it again a few weeks after. He hasn't stopped. Now, he's open about it. His excuse, because he no longer wanted to lie to me. At that point though, the damage is already done so him still doi...

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cuddle buddy


Posted Tuesday October 22 2013, 10:35 pm

This guy keeps texting me and we have a pretty good relationship going. He always calls me beautiful,tells me I'mdifferent from other girls and invites me over but whenever I can follow through he always either cancels or makes excuses. Is it because he's shy? Then he asks me to be his cuddle buddy. I said Ok, but he still doesnt initiate hanging out. I really like him now but am afraid that he doesn't feel the same way. What is your intake on this? Does he like me, is he playing me or just flat out wants sex? Thank you for your answers!
PS Im an 18 yr old girl

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confused ??!! well ..


Posted Tuesday October 22 2013, 10:07 pm

iv taken the morning after pill straight after I had sex the next morning and well it's been 3 weeks and my period hasn't come so today I brought a pregnancy test and it was negative , so periods usually delay for a long time?
I think iv been feeling stressed cause it hasn't come and I know I ain't pregnant cause I don't have signs or anything plus the result was negative so I'm 99 percent sure its true .. I'm just worried because I'm scared it's going to take ages to come is this normal ? help !!

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Beginner weightlifting tips needed!


Posted Tuesday October 22 2013, 8:16 pm

Hi all,

I've been working out consistently for a month now and would now like to incorporate more weight lifting into my routine, rather than just cardio.

As a beginner, I feel that using the weight machines would be a better start in terms of doing the right movement and so on. A more controlled situation, should I say.
However, I'm not really sure what my "plan" should be or how to make one.
My gym does offer fitness consultants but they are very pricy and I can't afford to make a fitness plan with one right now.

So I was wondering if anyone with weight lifting experience would be kind enough to tell me the kind of sets/reps I should have and what order I might want to d...

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ignored by idiotic guy


Posted Tuesday October 22 2013, 7:32 pm

I met this guy the other night. He bought me a drink and he told me I'm pretty like 6 times in 30 minutes. We had a decent conversation. Today I saw him on campus with a bunch of other guys. He awkwardly stared at me for 5 seconds then looked away when I waved (I know he saw me wave). Then as I walked past him, he looked at me again, made a weird face, and looked away. WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE? I'm upset. I want to text him something bitchy and make him feel like a loser. Should I?

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I need money!!


Posted Tuesday October 22 2013, 6:41 pm

I'm 13 and I'm a girl and I really need money to buy... You know stuff girls like!! But I need money! I looked up something's but they won't work for me. I don't have any training to babysit, I don't want to walk dogs, it's to cold for lemonade right now. I don't want anything to complicated. My parents can't afford to pay me and do allowances, so I need something to do! Please help :)

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What should i do about my dad losing his job?


Posted Tuesday October 22 2013, 4:55 pm

I'm a sophmore in highschool and I don't really know what to do or how to react to my family's recent situation. My father just lost his job and is currently being paid a severence for the next 12 weeks. We are immigrant citizens and neither of my parents have college degrees. My mom isn't working and probably will never because she speaks very little English. When my dad told me he was fired I was in shock and i still am. I haven't really talked to him about it nor have I done anything about it. I don't know what to do I looked up online and got people saying how I should get a job to help support my family but Im too young and the jobs fit for my age group are filled I can't even drive by myself yet and my parents wouldn't allow it anyway...

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dating with tinder


Posted Tuesday October 22 2013, 2:54 pm

Tinder in Argentina. I match with lots of girls but none reply back, is it broken? why would they click like if they wont chat with matches?

I'm just using "hi" (and other synonims like hello) and I don't keep sending messages if they don't reply to the first one, so nothing creepy or disgusting.

Is the app broken and doesn't send/receive messages?
or why would they push like if they wont chat with matches?
is it normal? girls just push like because they are stupid and dont know what Tinder is about?

AM I THE ONLY ONE IN MY COUNTRY THAT KNOWS WHAT THIS APP IS FOR?

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My boyfriend hasn't had sex with me in a week and I feel bad? (Adults)


Posted Tuesday October 22 2013, 1:40 pm

Okay so first off we're both adults, have been together a long time and live together, I'm just noting that to give some sort of perspective since there are so many young girls on this site talking about sex.

Usually my boyfriend wants to have sex every three days or so. It's been a week now and he hasn't even tried to have sex with me and I almost feel guilty and bad about it.

Last time we had sex it was bad for me because it hurt so much and he knows it. This might sound selfish or inconsiderate but it's him who's making it bad.
I'm a very petite girl (under 5FT and 78 pounds) and he's tall and fit so naturally he's "large" physically (in the obvious department). I try my hardest to please h...

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1 Minute Monologue for an Audition


Posted Tuesday October 22 2013, 11:54 am

hi there, 13/m. I am having auditions soon and i would like someone to help me find a short 1minute monologue, it can talk about anything as long as its appropriate for school. thank-you!

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Husband always picking and needing


Posted Tuesday October 22 2013, 5:53 am

Why does my husband always gots to be so mean.Why are we so differtent why does he try to keep me Isolated, in a small town.He watches what I eat.He is driving me crazy.I`m 33 @ my husband is 27.Louisiana U.S.He usualy work out of town I would only see him on the weekend know he home and he driving me off the wall in just one day how can I Adjust to him.

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Should I ignore my boyfriend for a few weeks?


Posted Tuesday October 22 2013, 12:46 am

My boyfriend and I have been in a long distance relationship for 3 and a half years now. When he's away at school he has a extremely busy life and always says he doesn't have time to even think about me, he's so crazed. I give him tons of space at school and try not to cling on as much as possible. However he only texts me a few times a day, never ever calls or says the loving things he does when were together. This has been an ongoing battle for years now where I constantly feel unloved by him when were away. He's said hurtful things that really make me question what I am to him. I know he loves me and cares about me or he wouldn't go through all this but I'm so tired of being last on his list. I've tried everything. Everything. Talking to...

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Rescue dog health problems


Posted Monday October 21 2013, 11:24 pm

My girlfriend and I just got a rescue dog and we've noticed that her breathing is a lot faster than normal. We've had her for three days so far and will be scheduling a vet visit soon. It seems like she's taking shorter and faster breathes. I wonder if she could be stressed or is it something else? This didn't really happen until after we took her out for a car ride. Sometimes it lasts a while after a dog walk, but I think in that situation it's just because she's tired. Her heart rate seems normal. What are some reasons why she could be breathing fast? Fall is coming soon and it is getting colder so I don' think the weather is an issue. She is a golden retriever mix with maybe a spitz breed, very small for her breed. She's 40 lbs, and she ...

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