I met this guy the other night. He bought me a drink and he told me I'm pretty like 6 times in 30 minutes. We had a decent conversation. Today I saw him on campus with a bunch of other guys. He awkwardly stared at me for 5 seconds then looked away when I waved (I know he saw me wave). Then as I walked past him, he looked at me again, made a weird face, and looked away. WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE? I'm upset. I want to text him something bitchy and make him feel like a loser. Should I?
What is wrong with you that when a virtual stranger does something for a brief moment that you don't like, you start flinging insults like idiotic and moron and trying to figure out how to get back at him!
Chill out. He might not have recognized you outside the context of the bar, or maybe he just isn't interested. Either way, you response is way out of whack.
Writing a bitchy text is only going to make you look like a bitchy loser, and he'll be damn glad he didn't talk to you. It's not going to make him feel like a loser if he missed out on talking to crazy, over-dramatic, bitch.
If you want to talk to him again, give him the benefit of the doubt and text him more along the lines of "Hey, saw you on campus today. How are you doing?"
lightoftruth answered Wednesday October 23 2013, 1:19 am: If you text him something bitchy then he'll just think you're a loser. Trust me, it won't make him feel like a loser. He'll most likely tag you as the type of girl who gets dramatic over him not talking to you.
BubbleTeaa answered Tuesday October 22 2013, 10:31 pm: Absolutely not! Trust me do not text him, even if it's to say something bitchy. The best way to be bitchy is to ignore him back, do not ever smile or wave or text or try to approach him again. Guys always come running for women that they can't have and women that never pay any attention to them. Dont stress and just ignore him, works like a charm! [ BubbleTeaa's advice column | Ask BubbleTeaa A Question ]
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