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cuddle buddy
This guy keeps texting me and we have a pretty good relationship going. He always calls me beautiful,tells me I'mdifferent from other girls and invites me over but whenever I can follow through he always either cancels or makes excuses. Is it because he's shy? Then he asks me to be his cuddle buddy. I said Ok, but he still doesnt initiate hanging out. I really like him now but am afraid that he doesn't feel the same way. What is your intake on this? Does he like me, is he playing me or just flat out wants sex? Thank you for your answers!
PS Im an 18 yr old girl
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There is really not enough information here about him to give you a definitive answer. There could be many reasons he is the way he is.
Being shy is certainly one of the reasons. Your beauty and sexuality are certainly another reason especially if he is inexperienced around girls. You of course know him better than any of us do so you need to find the underlying problem.
I'm sure sex is on his mind, for any red blood boy sex is not far from the front of his mind. It may also be the problem that he holds you in to high of a regard to see you just as an object a of sexual play thing and is unsure how to really approach you. It is easy to talk on the phone or to text someone. It gets much harder to actually hold a face to face conversation with someone who is the object of your affection.
If you like this boy then you may have to take the bull by the horns and make the initial contact. Try and make it someplace where he would not feel uneasy to be alone with you. Some places that come to mind would be the food court at the mall, the library, a miniature golf course, a bowling alley or anyplace where there would be other people around. Then you two could have a conversation, one that you might have to start.
In any relationship for it to be fruitful and to grow and mature. It has to have a basis in knowledge and trust of each other. This basis is formed by communication. Any relationship formed strictly on sex appeal and sex is doomed to failure for one day you wake up and need to talk to each other and then find you have nothing in common.
If you like this boy and want to see if there is a basis for a relationship then with him it may be you have to take the lead. If the relationship progresses to the point where sex is appropriate you may have to take the lead there as well.
If you are both over the age of 18 you are adults. As adults you have certain rights. Among those rights is a right to a sex life if wanted. Just make sure to take the proper precautions.
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He's interested in you. There could be many reasons why he keeps bailing. He simply could be busy, hiding something, shy, just messing around, or something completely different.
We don't know him so you're just gonna have to go with your instincts.
If you think he's shy, try initiate hanging out. Try to keep it something simple. If you guys seem to hit it off, then keep it going and you know that he's definitely into you.
You'll never know until you try. If he keeps on bailing, then nothing will probably end up happening between you guys.
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Do you really know him? I guess what I mean is have you met him before or know him from school?
If not then I would have to guess that he has been making stuff up about himself and just doesn't want the charade to end. Making stuff up is really easy over the internet. You can send pictures that aren't yours, you can say I am skinny & really be obese...etc.
If you do know him then I think I would still be suspicious. He may have a girlfriend already, or he may just be shy.
He must like you or he wouldn't bother texting you at all. However proceed with caution because something isn't right.
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