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How to tell your girlfriend you're cheating on her
Posted Sunday October 10 2010, 7:24 pm
Me = 17/m
Her = 16/f
Dating = 3 yrs
I want to tell my girlfriend the truth about me cheating on her recently. There was this girl I knew all through school and she texted me one day and asked if I wanted to hang out. I feel so guilty because I was attracted to the girl for a long time but never acted on it before. I did meet up with her and lied to my gf about it, telling her I was going to go down the road and look for a job. I met up with the girl and I told her upfront I had a girl already. Things still happened and I KNOW I am to blame for this because I couldn't be a man and control myself right. We didn't have full sex but it was pretty close at one point before I was like "Hey, I can't do this" ...
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Sex: Which hole is the right one?
Posted Sunday October 10 2010, 4:43 pm
How do you know which hole the penis should be inserted in?
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Posted Sunday October 10 2010, 8:09 am
ive been with my boyfriend for 2 years now and we have some trouble in the road at the moment or i dnt know. well it started in the summer when he was at his friends house and i saw pictures of him his bestfreinds lil sister and her sisters friend together with him it upset me that i had to find out on facebook but everyone told me it was not a big deal. okay fine. well 2 weeks ago i went through his phone and found out he was texting her but he was one wording her like ya sure okay idk. but still he texted her back. and turns out he texted her a week before that too well she texted him and when i tried to find out how they exchanged numbers im hearing that she got it from someone its just not clear. okay well last night my friend told me ...
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a new number
Posted Sunday October 10 2010, 1:28 am
this guy i work with gave me his number and wrote it down and left it on my windsheild. he said that he would give it to me if i wanted him to work my shift this week b.c im working a lot. but he didnt when he left and i was glad b.c i have a boyfriend of 2 years and yes we might not be on good terms right now but i would never text another guy no matter what he was doing im deeply in love with him so when i found the number i thought it was cute he did it like that but i dont want it so i threw it out. i dont want to tell my boyfriend and start shit because i want to be with him and not break up. did i do the right thing?
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boyfriend won't reciprocate
Posted Saturday October 9 2010, 9:15 pm
My boyfriend and I are sexually active. The sex is alright, but I noticed he has never gone down on me, although I frequently go down on him. So today I called him out on it, "I said do you not go down on girls?" He said that he didn't, its something that girls should do, but for a guy to do that for a girl is not acceptable.
This is the only way I can get off, but I don't think he really cares. How do I get him to stop being selfish in bed?
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boyfriend drama!
Posted Saturday October 9 2010, 7:59 pm
me and my boyfriend have been dating for a couple months now. and all of a sudden hes asked for a naked pic ( i wont and havent given him one) i told him i deserved more respect than that, and he didnt seem to care that he hurt my feelings.
so school starts tommorrow and i will see him again. io want to break up with him and have waited till now to do it face to face.
how do i break up with him.
he wont care when i do, i doubt he even had feelings for me.
so suggestions?
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boyfriend problems
Posted Saturday October 9 2010, 3:32 pm
So yesterday was me and my boyfriend's one year anniversary. I had a feeling he wasn't really gonna do anything, so I specifically asked him to plan something nice for us to do. But of course, he didn't. I went to his place and he was like sorry, I didn't plan anything. Wanna go see a movie? and I just went along with it..because I knew it would happen. I also put a lot of thought into the gift I got him (which he loved), baked him some peanut butter bars, and wrote him a really sweet letter. He got me a box of chocolate and was like "I was gonna get you Monopoly, but I didn't know if you alrready had it" (we play online together sometimes and its like an inside joke).
Anyway, point is that I was beyond disappointed...
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Is it wrong for your boyfriend to fantasize about other girls?
Posted Saturday October 9 2010, 12:40 pm
Well i used to be really really jealous and me and my boyfriend of four years broke up because of it, because he kept lying to not hurt me, and it bothered me when he watched porn and stuff, but later he begged me back and he said he loved me & wanted me back. So now that we were together i asked him not to look at porn and if he wanted pictures or something i would send him some and even though i'm trying to get un-jealous like before i wouldn't let him go out without me(yeah i was psycho lol) but now i let get him get away with a lot but i still have jealous thoughts every once in a while, so the day before i wanted my moms number that he had on his phone and i had just gotten a new phone so i asked him for it and he didn't want to gi...
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new realationship
Posted Saturday October 9 2010, 2:18 am
I left a realationship that was hard on me for a new one. i do nonthing but fight with my new bf & find myself wanting to run back to old one. i feel so confused . i wonder if maybe just being single is better?
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Confessing my crush!
Posted Friday October 8 2010, 7:08 pm
I'm going to confess my crush in the coming week or so! I have strong reasons to believe that the crush is mutual. I have confirmed and reconfirmed the signs just to be sure, and now I feel that I am. AND even if for some reason my intuition is wrong, I'd really like to know how he feels. Keeping this a secret is just annoying, lol.
So, it's his birthday on Wednesday and I feel like that would be a nice time to tell him. I don't want to sound all self-important, but if he likes me, wouldn't telling him on his own birthday be super good news? The alternative is to wait until after the birthday party next weekend, just to see if anything happens then. But honestly, he's so shy that it's unlikely that he'll ever admit it/act on...
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Facebook status changing time.
Posted Friday October 8 2010, 4:04 pm
My boyfriend won't change his Facebook status. Mine says in a relationship with so and so, but his says single. We've been dating exclusively for TWO YEARS now. What do I say to him to make him understand that this hurts me because it stirs up a lot of drama when you click on his name from my profile and on his it's glaring at me: SINGLE. Do you think maybe I should wait longer, or am I right to ask him after two years to update it...
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Mixed emotions before; now idk what to do?
Posted Friday October 8 2010, 2:06 pm
Okay, three months ago I posted a blog about having mixed emotions with my boyfriend at the time. Im 17/f and he is 16/m. We was together for 4 months and I started having mixed emotions. Now its been about three months, and Im starting to want him back. I thought since I had mixed emotions it meant I didn't care about him like he cared about me, so I tried talking and hanging, and moving to a new level with other guys, but it just wasn't working. Seeing him flirt with other girls makes me jealous, and we hung out a couple of nights ago and he kissed me, and it felt good again. I recently found out he called me a "stupid fat ass bitch" because he said he knew it would hurt me and he wanted to just cause me a lil pain even though i...
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Connecting With a Guy
Posted Thursday October 7 2010, 9:00 pm
So, I am 18f. I have a boyfriend that is the sweetest guy I have ever met. He has a sense of humour, a great personality, and a loving heart. What I am wondering is how can I get him to try new things? I love upbeat music, dancing, sports, and art... where he loves things like hard metal, football, and horses. He hasn't said he loves me yet, but you can just tell how he feels when he is with me. I just have a hard time really connecting to him on a deeper level. Sure he is a sweet, awesome guy, but I still wonder if we are ever going to be able to connect on a different level, you know what I mean? I just think that when you find that one person and you truly love them, you should be able to connect with them, be able to tell them anything,...
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Posted Thursday October 7 2010, 8:01 pm
Why is ex girlfriend's so annoying
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My Boyfriend Is In The Hospital And I Don't Know What To Do!
Posted Thursday October 7 2010, 7:19 pm
Ok so I have a boyfriend. He's on the school football team. Nd I went to the game today to find him sitting on the bench with the parametics. Nd they took him in an ambulance. Nd he's at the hospital with a concusion. Idk how bad it is. Nd bc he's at the hospital I'm sure he doesn't have his phone. Nd I wanna tlk to him. To c if he's ok. I'm really nervous to c how he is. I googled it. Nd it sed something about short term memory loss. Does tht mean he culd forget who I am or something. ???
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Torn between two men!!
Posted Thursday October 7 2010, 6:59 pm
Im a married women torn between two men and I dont know what to do. Me and my husband been together for 9yrs and married for 3. We had a break up after the first 5 of those years and during that break up I meant someone else and we dated for a year and I gained strong feeling for him. In the mean time I got pregant by my husband and had to stop talking and seeing my friend. I felt I had to do what was right for my baby. I never talked to him again after we talked about my pregancy and I decison to go back to my husband and he totally understood. We never seen each other nor talked for 5yrs. But he some how got my number and contacted me and at the time of contact me and my husband were having problems. So I carried on conversation we meet u...
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do i break up with him?
Posted Thursday October 7 2010, 6:33 pm
sorry if this is long.
14/f
ive been dating this boy for 2 months now,we get on great, but the physical stuff seems to be all thats happening yeah we talk all the time but idk... hes not physically attractive although i find my self confortable around him.
my friends hate him and well im not sure what to do. i like the physical stuff but later on i dont want to do something i will regret
(hes only fingered me)
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why is he being this way?!?
Posted Thursday October 7 2010, 11:24 am
I have been with my boyfriend off and on for about 5 years now.For some reason he has a problem with me staying up late even if I cant sleep right away.He told me its because when he gets off of work he would like to spend time with me.I said to him okay..I did change my sleep patterns for him.When I did that he never did spend time with me he always just played his game online.Yesterday night I stayed up one time because I could not sleep and he had a fit about it.I told him why should I Do what you had asked if you dont spend time with me..?He said yes I do,but he doesnt..its like he wants me to believe what he thinks.I dont know its weird to me.
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boyfriend checking out other girls
Posted Thursday October 7 2010, 1:25 am
So, I was at my boyfriends place the other day and I decided to look through his computer's history (yes..I realize bad idea, but this is not the issue here). So basically..he just looks through a LOT of other girl's pictures. Like pretty girls..slutty pictures..etc. every single day. and it's not like they are his friends in real life, it's like the people that youre friends with on facebook that you havent talked to in years. So..when I asked him about it, he half apologized and said that he does feel bad when he does it.
So my question is..do I have a right to be upset? jealous?
I admit, he is allowed to look. We all look at a cute guy/girl walking by us. But when you're on facebook, it's like you're actively lookin...
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I sent him pics and now he doesn't want to talk!! WTF?
Posted Thursday October 7 2010, 12:56 am
okay this guy i know moved to florida a couple of months ago. today we were chatting and catching up and he asked me to send him pics (just g rated pics!) to see how much ive changed over the months. everything was great. he was being really nice and cute....until he got the pics.... once he saw them he was like "oh wow, you did change... ok i gotta go bye." wtf?
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