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do i break up with him?
sorry if this is long.
14/f
ive been dating this boy for 2 months now,we get on great, but the physical stuff seems to be all thats happening yeah we talk all the time but idk... hes not physically attractive although i find my self confortable around him.
my friends hate him and well im not sure what to do. i like the physical stuff but later on i dont want to do something i will regret
(hes only fingered me)
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Hello.
I do think you should break up with him.
You don't find him physically attractive. This in itself is a problem. In fact, based on what you said about him, it seems as though you do not really like him romantically at all!
If he DOES like you romantically, then you are leading him on. If he does not, then you are still giving yourself less than you deserve. If you're going to date someone, it may as well be someone that you truly like.
Also, if your friends don't like him, then that is a huge warning sign. Friends look out for your best interest, thus, this guy is not in your best interest.
I'm sure that you could wait and find someone who you truly connect to and actually have feelings for. Believe me that it will be a much happier relationship. I also think that you should be in no rush to get "physical," especially not with someone you hardly care about. "Physical" things are supposed to be special, and given your young age, I'm sure you WILL regret it later on if you don't wait for the right time and right person. I'm 17, and even I think that I'm not ready to get "physical" with just anyone. It has nothing to do with being a prude, but everything to do with having a meaningful relationship with someone. SO, my advice is that you shouldn't rush into things that you aren't ready for. Protect your innocence for as long as you can. I don't mean to sound like a mom by saying all of this, so I hope you don't take it that way.
Take care <3.
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