My boyfriend won't change his Facebook status. Mine says in a relationship with so and so, but his says single. We've been dating exclusively for TWO YEARS now. What do I say to him to make him understand that this hurts me because it stirs up a lot of drama when you click on his name from my profile and on his it's glaring at me: SINGLE. Do you think maybe I should wait longer, or am I right to ask him after two years to update it...
sml111992 answered Sunday October 10 2010, 1:24 am: lets remember that its facebook and it doesnt mean anything its not real life if you are dating then your dating you know that he knows that people you know know that so why is it he has to put it on his facebook. if hes never on it then maybe he just doesnt find it a priority to change it when he firsts gets on. or he doesnt care and doesnt find it a nesessary thing in life to make sure his relationship status says that you guys go out. exactly its been 2 years so this would just begin a stupid fight. i understand it bothers you but you cant make someone do what you want let him do what he wnts this doesnt mean he wants other people to think hes single just have to look at this at another point of view [ sml111992's advice column | Ask sml111992 A Question ]
MissYMelisS answered Saturday October 9 2010, 10:40 pm: Its not a big deal.
So he doesnt want to change his stauts? Big whoop. Who does he date? You. Who does he sleep with? You. Theres no reason for you to make a big deal out of something like this...its FACEBOOK. 10 years ago, this wouldnt have mattered at all because facebook didnt even exist.
Razhie answered Saturday October 9 2010, 12:14 am: Even if he doesn't want to list that he is in a relationship for whatever reason he might have - you can fairly expect him to at least remove the SINGLE tag and have no status listed.
It's not about what 'rights' you have. It's about the fact he is presenting himself to people in a dishonest way. Point it out gently, but clearly. [ Razhie's advice column | Ask Razhie A Question ]
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