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Confessing my crush!
I'm going to confess my crush in the coming week or so! I have strong reasons to believe that the crush is mutual. I have confirmed and reconfirmed the signs just to be sure, and now I feel that I am. AND even if for some reason my intuition is wrong, I'd really like to know how he feels. Keeping this a secret is just annoying, lol.
So, it's his birthday on Wednesday and I feel like that would be a nice time to tell him. I don't want to sound all self-important, but if he likes me, wouldn't telling him on his own birthday be super good news? The alternative is to wait until after the birthday party next weekend, just to see if anything happens then. But honestly, he's so shy that it's unlikely that he'll ever admit it/act on it. I personally think it would be better to tell him sooner rather than later because there's so much of that awkward/tense flirtatious behavior going on at the moment. Won't telling him make us more normal around eachother?
I want second opinions. When would be best, and why? :)
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Maybe not telling him directly on his BD but give him a card with 2 tickets to an event or dinner and make sure he knows that he has to take you along as a date. That lets him know that you're interested in him but doesn't require an immediate response. Then during the date you can see where things go and how he truly feels.
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It would be best to tell him now than later ;), because it be a nice gift to him if he likes you :D
plus you'll be together sooner :) good luck!
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I think it is best to tell him after his birthday because even though you feel that he likes you back, you still have your doubts and at a birthday party all the attention will be focused on him so there will not be a lot of opportunities to have a one on one talk with him. Also if that small chance that he doesn't like you happens to win, it means you are now stuck at his birthday party with him able to talk to basically anyone there and you potentially in the corner upset. Plus at birthdays usually things do happen due to stupid birthday games such as spin the bottle, etc. If you've waited this long and you really think he likes you, he won't change his mind in one day. However if you really can't wait and you are 100% sure maybe you can try showing up slightly early and telling him then or leaving later then everyone else so that it is just you and him. Good luck! I hope this helped. x
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