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boyfriend checking out other girls
So, I was at my boyfriends place the other day and I decided to look through his computer's history (yes..I realize bad idea, but this is not the issue here). So basically..he just looks through a LOT of other girl's pictures. Like pretty girls..slutty pictures..etc. every single day. and it's not like they are his friends in real life, it's like the people that youre friends with on facebook that you havent talked to in years. So..when I asked him about it, he half apologized and said that he does feel bad when he does it.
So my question is..do I have a right to be upset? jealous?
I admit, he is allowed to look. We all look at a cute guy/girl walking by us. But when you're on facebook, it's like you're actively looking for a cute person to check out. It just hurt my feelings and I don't look at other guys pictures on facebook. and there's nothing I can do about it and i'm sure he'll keep doing it.
does it mean he's getting over me? or that he doesnt find me attractive anymore and is looking for a new girl?
Thanks
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It is a tiny bit shady, and I understand your feelings, but I don't think it really means he is looking for a new girl. He likes pretty girls. FB is an easy way to view pretty girls without someone punching you out for staring at their girlfriend? He did apologize (sort of, I guess). I wouldn't stress TOO too much about it, but maybe just keep your eyes open.. If you notice other things about how he treats YOU personally (not as attentive, avoiding you, staying out and not calling) then yes, maybe his actions are something to consider more, but until then just try to express (calmly) to him how hurt it makes you feel and try to move on.
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yes you do have a right to feel jealous i mean any girl would but the reality is that all boys do it and theres nothing we can really do to stop them hes not growing tired of you its just boy nature to check out other girls so try not to feel to upset joke around with him talk about how sexy some girl is he'll know that you're cool with it and brag about what a cool girlfriend you are and you two will get closer
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