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why is he being this way?!?
I have been with my boyfriend off and on for about 5 years now.For some reason he has a problem with me staying up late even if I cant sleep right away.He told me its because when he gets off of work he would like to spend time with me.I said to him okay..I did change my sleep patterns for him.When I did that he never did spend time with me he always just played his game online.Yesterday night I stayed up one time because I could not sleep and he had a fit about it.I told him why should I Do what you had asked if you dont spend time with me..?He said yes I do,but he doesnt..its like he wants me to believe what he thinks.I dont know its weird to me.
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Set 'together time' in advance.
Make plans a day or two in advance to rent a movie, or order a pizza or some such together in the evening when he comes home.
You two are both expecting the other person to just magically be available, but with different schedules and different interests, that isn't going to happen. Instead, decide together when you’ll both be available. Then you can plan your sleeping schedule as best as you can, and he can plan his gaming one.
Pick a night or two next week, and tell him as much. You both have valid complaints, but you’ve got to deal with them better.
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