ive been with my boyfriend for 2 years now and we have some trouble in the road at the moment or i dnt know. well it started in the summer when he was at his friends house and i saw pictures of him his bestfreinds lil sister and her sisters friend together with him it upset me that i had to find out on facebook but everyone told me it was not a big deal. okay fine. well 2 weeks ago i went through his phone and found out he was texting her but he was one wording her like ya sure okay idk. but still he texted her back. and turns out he texted her a week before that too well she texted him and when i tried to find out how they exchanged numbers im hearing that she got it from someone its just not clear. okay well last night my friend told me that her friend was talking to her in gym and said they talk all the time and that he said to her that he doesnt love me anyomre and that he still likes me but they cant talk till we break up clearly we didnt break up and apparenlty she tried texting him but he wont respond. well i told him and of course same story shes ugly i love you i dont like her and everyone is saying the same thing that he wouldnt do that yadaya but hers my deal why would anyone lie about that like thats a really big lie and to start stuff you know and im just really like well i didnt think he would do that but why would she lie about it i just dont understand ans so i messaged her and saying i want to know if you two really talk because if so you can have him forever because i dont want him if you guys talk and if you dont and you lied about it your just pathetic and need to get a life basically. i dont know what to do i dont want to live like this any more this been going on to long and im sick of her looking at me all the time and just so you know if i confronted her i more than likely will rip the bitches hair out and i dont want that.
He hasnt broken up with her, theres no evidence that he cheated on you. Texting someone else isnt a big deal. He wasnt flirting with her. You said so yourself.
jodieleighstewart answered Sunday October 10 2010, 10:44 am: hello there,
you should settle this maturely. Confront him one last time and ask him what is going on, you need to know. If he admits and tells you something was going on leave him. You will be alone but you will have pride and self esteem. If he lies then leave him still. If he loved you he wouldn't be doing this behind your back. Just don't do something you might later regret.
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