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Mixed emotions before; now idk what to do?
Okay, three months ago I posted a blog about having mixed emotions with my boyfriend at the time. Im 17/f and he is 16/m. We was together for 4 months and I started having mixed emotions. Now its been about three months, and Im starting to want him back. I thought since I had mixed emotions it meant I didn't care about him like he cared about me, so I tried talking and hanging, and moving to a new level with other guys, but it just wasn't working. Seeing him flirt with other girls makes me jealous, and we hung out a couple of nights ago and he kissed me, and it felt good again. I recently found out he called me a "stupid fat ass bitch" because he said he knew it would hurt me and he wanted to just cause me a lil pain even though it was wrong because he's been going through hell for two months and ive acted like I was fine. A part of me wants him back, but another part of me doesn't because I don't want to get back with him and my mixed emotions end up coming back, and than I hurt him AGAIN. He says he doesn't care, he just loves me and wants me back. But I don't know. I want to be with him, but Im afraid mixed emotions will come back, but im not certain if they will.
Helpp?
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First of all this is a confusing time for you .your young and still going through a lot of changes especaly emotional .you have your whole life to settle down with the one persone that will tteat you right .when I was your age I had this girlfriend who was 3 years younger than me and we would be together for awhile break up get back together and I tell you it was confusing for me but you see it all boils down to one thing you either have strong fellings for him or you don't .he might like you more than you like him or vice versa .but you will never know what true fellings you have for each other unless you comunicate .if you want to be with him than be with him. Don't play the cat and mouse game because can be bad .its a tough desision but here's the thing you have to be friends before lovers .it takes getting to know eachother and that could take a lifetime .what I'm getting at is this if it was me and you realy like him than start out slow and see what happens .you might be surprised of what could happen ask him to go out on dates just to see where his mind is at by asking him questions but go out alone just you too and you will then know the answer if you too are compatable with eachother. I hope I haven't confused you wiyh all this
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sorry misread....of course in any relationship
theres a chance you'll hurt the other person I know that, but thats life, and life is ment to take chances. so i think you two should try again, hes willing to give the relationship another try and so are you. Sure you might hurt him again, but I think its better to know if your really ment to be or not, then ask the question later what if?..and later on you may or may not hurt him but time heals the heart and he'll move on and so will you.
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