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I left a realationship that was hard on me for a new one. i do nonthing but fight with my new bf & find myself wanting to run back to old one. i feel so confused . i wonder if maybe just being single is better?
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Anytime you leave a relationship, you should take some time to be single before you start a new one. The fighting might just be left over stress from the old relationship. Only stay in the relationship if you are happy being with the person.
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being single would definitely be better! Learn to love yourself, become more spiritual, and love others, and someone truly worthwhile will eventually come along. Do not settle! you are worth more,
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You already made your first mistake. Jumping straight from a relationship to a new guy is a horrible choice. You didnt give yourself any time to get to know someone new, or get a feel for this new guy.
I think you should take some time alone. Explore what you really want and find someone who will make you happy. Dont just settle for the first guy who comes your way.
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first you need to make sure you know exactly what you want. right now you dont seem like you know. did u leave ur relationship and then get back into a new one right away? if yes then you shouldnt have done that you need time to get over someone. and to think about what you really want. thats why youre confused. i believe that if you knew exactly what you wanted you wouldnt be confused right? so maybe the best thing to do is to stay single. atleast until youre sure you know who you want. ---anny. xo
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You sound as if being single is the best until you know for sure what you want. It also sounds like you know you are better off being single.
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Sounds like you've answered your own question. I'd rather be happy alone than miserable with somebody else. Take some time out to get to know who you are as an individual, without being part of a "team". Then, once you feel confident in who you are and what you have to offer the world, and another person, you'll start attracting people who are also confident, and you'll see what a joy it is to be in a relationship with someone who respects you and loves who you are as an individual. But if you feel confused about yourself, you'll only attract confusion. Its hard when you're the type that needs to be in a relationship in order to feel fulfilled, but be brave, step out on a limb and try loving yourself alone for a while. Remember, the RIGHT choices in life are almost never the EASY choices, or everyone would always do the right thing! Good luck.
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