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boyfriend drama!


Question Posted Saturday October 9 2010, 7:59 pm

me and my boyfriend have been dating for a couple months now. and all of a sudden hes asked for a naked pic ( i wont and havent given him one) i told him i deserved more respect than that, and he didnt seem to care that he hurt my feelings.
so school starts tommorrow and i will see him again. io want to break up with him and have waited till now to do it face to face.
how do i break up with him.
he wont care when i do, i doubt he even had feelings for me.
so suggestions?


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xxemilyfeil answered Sunday October 17 2010, 3:22 pm:
That is a very bold move, and a smart one too. It is good that you have respect for yourself and for your body. Just tell him straight up what he did wrong. Don't lie to him because then your being the jerk. Tell him the truth.


Good Luck!

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blackluna7111 answered Sunday October 10 2010, 2:02 am:
honestly thats good for you. you have respect for yourself. i just think you should talk to him and tell him how you feel. just say that you feel like he doesnt care about your feelings and the fact that hes asking for naked pics in such a SHORT amount of time is ridiculous. i think breaking up with him is the best decision for you especially if he seems like he doesnt care. just try and keep it simple and to the point.. try not to argue because when guys get rejected or broken up with they can be a**holes. so try to do it in a good way. wish u the best of luck. --anny xo.

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sml111992 answered Sunday October 10 2010, 1:07 am:
wow you have total respect for yourself and know that this relationship should end becuase you deserve to be treated better than that. most girls would have given him the picture. if i were you i would ask to talk to him a lone look concerned and tell him when you asked me to give you a picture of me naked it hurt my feelings and it seemed that you didnt care or even cared about me in the first place so im going to end things before any one gets hurt any further.

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Sweet_LiL_Angel answered Saturday October 9 2010, 9:51 pm:
i dont know you but i am proud of you for having that kind of respect for you and honestly i would just tell him your really disrespected me and didn't care that you did it and tell him its over.

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dearcandore answered Saturday October 9 2010, 9:40 pm:
Short and sweet. He doesn't sound like the kind of guy you need to waste a lot of time explaining things to. And good for you! Nice to see a young person with some self respect.

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Wishuponastar13 answered Saturday October 9 2010, 9:14 pm:
Don't make it a huge deal and explain that he really hurt your feelings etc. This will just make you seem like you cared so much when apparently he doesn't give a shit. I would just find a chance to talk to him alone and say something like "I don't have any feelings for you anymore, I'd like to break up." Obviously if he doesn't respect you or care that he hurt your feelings he won't care about the long speech I know you'd like to give him about how disrespectful he is and how he hurt your feelings. I'd go for the quick, painless method. Worked for me and one of my ex's. Good luck and good job for having enough self-respect to dump his ass! Hope I helped x.

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