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Best friends or something more?
Posted Thursday October 28 2010, 12:22 am
20 female - Joe 19
I've known Joe for about 5 years now. He is like my best guy friend. I can tell him anything and trust him with my life which I can't do with many people. I've always had a crush on him. When I find another guy, I always seem to think about him. Sometimes the things he does and how he acts towards me makes me think he likes me more than a friend but I don't know.
He's always giving me hugs
He always listens, no matter what it is
I know he is attracted to me
He talks to me different than other girls I've realized, even texting. He short texts all other girls but with me he's different
Sometimes I will say love you at the end of a text or something and he always says...
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The Younger Guys
Posted Wednesday October 27 2010, 7:44 pm
For some reason I always get these little crushes on guys younger than I am. It hurts me to know that it'll never work out. I'm 18 anyway so it's kind of illegal anyway. I'm not going to date any of them but does any one have a reason why I might like the younger guys?
I also think it may because I'm always told I'm pretty and beautiful but that's it and it never goes any further. My two best friends both have bobyfriends and both go out on double dates together all the time. Makes me feel left out when they do that. We do hang out together other times but it still hurts that they go out on double dates and can't invite me because I'm always single.
I'm very outgoing. I'm fun. I love to party and act silly. I'm...
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My 'online friend.'
Posted Wednesday October 27 2010, 6:18 pm
16/F
So for the past 8 months I've been talking this guy on twitter. We used to roleplay as a fake couple. Well five months into talking with eachother I confessed I've grown feelings for him. He admitted the same to me. Then we started talking about real life stuff like our friends, family, school, and our past. Everyday we would talk about the most random things. Soon its been 6 months and we start saying "I love you." And I know the internet is never safe because you dont really see the person behind the screen and it could be some online predator but something felt right. I mean after seven months why hasn't he made a move if he is an "online predator?" He never asked me about my town or school or my last name...
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doe he like me? or just a buddy?
Posted Wednesday October 27 2010, 4:59 pm
16/f
i really like my best guy friend. we have one class together and we met this year. Wellmy friends thinks that he likes me but im not 100% sure. i really likehi but i dont want to tell him i like him and make our friendship awkward.
well h walks me to the bus, wesit by each other in art, it seems like he trusts me.
well i was sitting with him and he reaches into his pocket and pulls out this littl piece of paper. I wan't gingto look since its not my business but he was smilingand then he folds it back. well was oviosusly peeking to the point where he could see me (i was hintingfor him to tell me) and he showed me it and it was my phone number ( i gave it to him weeks ago)
dos he like me?
and h...
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change in ex
Posted Wednesday October 27 2010, 12:04 pm
okay me and my ex boyfriend had a fall out about 7 weeks ago and we ended up breaking up. i was completely heartbroken and he seemed to be too. we stayed friends for a while but recently we just stopped speaking. so anyway i went on a date with this guy from my work and my brother told my ex i had. when i spoke to my ex next he was like thats hurt me, i dont suppose there is anything i can do though. i said well i wanted to get back together with you and you wouldnt so im just moving on with my life. he said well i know youre talking to other guys now. i said well im single so i can speak to as many as i want to. its your loss at the end of the day. like a couple of days later my brother told me hes just gone crazy now likes hes out trying ...
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such a change in my ex
Posted Wednesday October 27 2010, 12:01 pm
okay me and my ex boyfriend had a fall out about 7 weeks ago and we ended up breaking up. i was completely heartbroken and he seemed to be too. we stayed friends for a while but recently we just stopped speaking. so anyway i went on a date with this guy from my work and my brother told my ex i had. when i spoke to my ex next he was like thats hurt me, i dont suppose there is anything i can do though. i said well i wanted to get back together with you and you wouldnt so im just moving on with my life. he said well i know youre talking to other guys now. i said well im single so i can speak to as many as i want to. its your loss at the end of the day. like a couple of days later my brother told me hes just gone crazy now likes hes out trying ...
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Why is he giving me his number?
Posted Wednesday October 27 2010, 11:48 am
My ex boyfriend broke up with me around 3 months ago. Things got quite complicated between us, we had a lot of stress and whatever. I still wanted to be with him, and I expressed that. Throughout the time we split, he still text me a couple of times a week. I made it clear I didn't want to wait around for him to decide whether he wanted to get back together or not, i'd given him enough time. He disagreed with me and said "I still want you in my life" and all of that rubbish. He still told me he loved me whenever I saw him and on a number of occasions he said all he wants is to be with me, he just can't see past the last week of our relationship (when we argued constantly - bare in mind we hadn't argued at all before this) So I exp...
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Stimulating the clit
Posted Wednesday October 27 2010, 12:56 am
I am a 65 year old male that doesn't know much about sex and relationships so I thought I would ask and maybe try this once to see if it was appealing to both of us.
Is it better to stimulate the clitoris with a finger or through oral sex with the tongue?
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not a regular fight.
Posted Wednesday October 27 2010, 12:05 am
me and my boyfriend of 3 years were fighting today about how i gave him 10 dollars and i was going to go get my paycheck after droping him off his friends house but ended up that my paycheck was not in so i needed that ten to get this dress. i asked for it a little upset becuase of my work being stupid. and he was like i spent it and i fliped i was like on what and he wouldnt tell me so im freaking out bcause he wont tell me then he called me names and i threatened him about stuff and now he says its over. well we have fought before but he says he cant do it anymore and i understand but im begging for him here crying and he says he doesnt want me right now and that he doesnt want to see me but cares about me and loves me and im really confu...
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Where and how to meet guys?
Posted Tuesday October 26 2010, 9:18 pm
17/f.
I just never seem to meet anyone. I know so many people that are always seeing various guys, but my love life, for the majority of the time is pretty much non-existent. I always kind of think that someday someone will come along, but I've been thinking that for years and it hasn't happened. It's not that I'm unattractive - I receive a lot of male attention, and am always told by guys that I'm very attractive. But I just never seem to meet anyone that amounts to anything.
Which places would you say do a lot of guys hang out? And what are the kind of places where everybody mingles and gets to know each other? I feel like wherever I go, I don't really mingle with anyone, and if I do, it doesn't turn into any...
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How to tell a guy you just want to be friends?
Posted Tuesday October 26 2010, 8:26 pm
Okay so I kind of got myself in a bad situation with 2 guys that really like me. I guess I've been leading them on but I don't like either of them. I just got a boyfriend that they don't know about yet and I really don't know how to tell them without them getting mad and not wanting to be friends. I'm the kind of person that can not hurt peoples feelings and I can't tell them straight up. When I tried talking to one guy he said he'd drive himself in the ground if he saw me with another guy. Help me please I really like my boyfriend and I don't want to him to get mad if I can't get rid of these other guys but I'm just too nice:( oh and I'm a 16 year old girl. Haah
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a guy that i think robbed me
Posted Tuesday October 26 2010, 3:56 pm
Okay, I was dating this guy for about a year. Long story short. I was at his house the night i was robbed. My furniture, washer, dryer,iron and some jewelry was taken from me. I could not believe that he stole from me he seemed to be so sincere. He even helped me with bills and cooked and cleaned for me. I know he didn't do it personally , but i do believe he sent some guys to my house to take my things. So, i left him alone for a good six months now hes back to calling me again. I'm trying to be JUST friends with him, now he is offering me to come over and hang out, spend time with him. My question is what should i do? Of course he tells me he had nothing to do with my house getting broken into, but my gut is telling me otherwise.
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What you expect in a relationship
Posted Tuesday October 26 2010, 9:37 am
I am trying to figure out objectively what I should expect from a man I am in a relationship with, and what are things I might not be able to expect because some men just aren't that way. I am not materialistic or selfish, I am in fact the opposite. So certain things in my relationship I would like to see more of and I want to know if what I want is the same as what other women expect too. What are some things your man or a past boyfriend has done that you loved? And what are some things you wish your boyfriend or previous boyfriend would have done? Did the things you wish he would do effect your relationship negatively?
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Unappreciated... Always Giving and Never Getting Anything Back
Posted Tuesday October 26 2010, 9:31 am
This is pretty long if I go in detail so I will try to sum it up for you. I am 21 years old and my boyfriend is 22. I have been dating my boyfriend for almost a year and a half now. We rarely fight and if we do they are for legitimate reasons. But one thing that has bugged me since we started dating was his lack of showing me he loves me. I am not materialistic and I don't expect to be bought things all the time and wined and dined. But I do expect him to show some love on days like my birthday or Valentines Day, and our One Year Anniversary. My birthday we had been dating four months and he got me nothing and even threw a tantrum saying he was tired when we went out to celebrate my 21st when it was only 11 PM and we had been out for one ho...
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I Can NOT Get a Boyfriend!
Posted Tuesday October 26 2010, 1:57 am
I am a fourteen-year-old freshman female.
So, the thing is that I'm random. I'm thinking that because of that, boys choose to avoid being in a relatioship with me.
For an example of my randomness: I will be the kind of girl who skips down the hallway singing, "If You're Happy and You Know It". I would say, "The stick people are here to conqure the world and kill us all!" randomly in class.
As for the boys, I do believe that they flirt with me a lot because, for example: They insult me in a playful manner, try to take stuff of mine, etc. However, they NEVER go any farther than that. Most of the time they go out with one of my friends or other classmates.
Now, I g...
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Obstacles in relationship
Posted Monday October 25 2010, 11:34 pm
Me and my boyfriend have known each other for awhile. Dating for almost 4 months now. We used to see each other a lot, but now he started college and has a part time job. That was fine.. it was a little difficult to set up when we'll see each other. Now his sister is moving in and she has two kids who she will have my boyfriend watch. It's bad enough of that.. but she doesn't have a car, and she might take the car which will make it even harder for us to get together. If she has a job, she might have him watch them when she's away. Plus her room is right next to his, which will make things weird if I stay over. We wont be able to stay up too late or watch tv, talk too loud. Honestly.. it's just a pain. I feel as if I wont see him anymore. I can't stand it. Advice please?
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well my bf he kinda said he has a boner and i didn't notice it
Posted Monday October 25 2010, 6:10 pm
i feel stupid that i didn't notice it at all...the other time i thought he did he didn't then some girl was like HE HAS A BONER at a party.i don't know what to do because i didn't notice the one time that he did have one and then when he didn't i though he did
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advice for a shy girl
Posted Monday October 25 2010, 5:22 pm
if a girl is shy, how does she learn to approach cute boys and make the first move?
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Married woman was flirting with me... now she is stalking me!
Posted Monday October 25 2010, 12:52 pm
I was friends with this woman who was married and always flirting.I flirted back,thought it was a game,and nothing ever happened between us,even though she said she wanted to.Well,long story short,I was in the hospital for a lung infection overnight.While I was gone,she sent,like 4 e mails,all talking about how her husband ran marathons for some mega-corporation,knowing I was in the hospital.She didn't say anything about how she hoped I would get better.Also,I think she is a swinger.I stopped talking to her..Do I need a friend like this? What makes a person be like this,and what happens to them? Now she is stalking me.
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Love one, Like another
Posted Monday October 25 2010, 9:33 am
A couple of years ago, I fell in love with my best friend. The whole thing went way bad, and the reprecussions hurt so much that I literally buried the pain and memories so deep that I didn't even remember any of it. Ever since then, I've had major commitment issues. I'm talking 2-and-a-half week long relationships. I had one that was longer. He was by far the best guy that I have ever had, but I still couldn't figure out what was missing.
A couple of weeks ago, I had a dream. In that dream, I remembered everything. I woke up crying and in pain. Fresh pain, but I realized that I was still in love with him. Head over heels in love with him. Well, I wasn't planning on saying anything, especially since I moved about two years ago, I'm o...
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