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Married woman was flirting with me... now she is stalking me!
I was friends with this woman who was married and always flirting.I flirted back,thought it was a game,and nothing ever happened between us,even though she said she wanted to.Well,long story short,I was in the hospital for a lung infection overnight.While I was gone,she sent,like 4 e mails,all talking about how her husband ran marathons for some mega-corporation,knowing I was in the hospital.She didn't say anything about how she hoped I would get better.Also,I think she is a swinger.I stopped talking to her..Do I need a friend like this? What makes a person be like this,and what happens to them? Now she is stalking me.
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She is probably not happy with her relationship. Her and her husband have probably agreed to stay together for whatever reasons, like having a house, financial situation, etc. But have agreed to live an open relationship, where they can go outside their marital vows of staying true to one another. Regardless as to the reasons why she might be a swinger, or maybe she is just a cheating wife.. Either way, that type of women should not be someone you want to be involved with as a friend and especially anything more. She sounds like nothing but trouble. And also a thing to consider, she might take your flirting back and "thinking it is a game" as you being legitimatly interested in her and that is why she is sending you these emails and supposedly "stalking" you. If you want her to leave you alone, tell her too and STOP flirting with her. It is not nice to toy with someone's emotions.
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How is she stalking you?
So what if she e-mailed you and was selfish and rude? You already knew she was selfish and rude.
If you've stopped talking to her, that's great. You've already decided she isn't your friend. The next step is to stop thinking about her so damn much and playing it over and over agian in your mind.
If she is harassing you call your local police on an non-emergency line and discuss the problem with them. If she isn't, ignore her and learn how to not care.
Your obession with 'Why is she doing this?' is feeding into the cycle of attention seeking behavoir.
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