Okay, I was dating this guy for about a year. Long story short. I was at his house the night i was robbed. My furniture, washer, dryer,iron and some jewelry was taken from me. I could not believe that he stole from me he seemed to be so sincere. He even helped me with bills and cooked and cleaned for me. I know he didn't do it personally , but i do believe he sent some guys to my house to take my things. So, i left him alone for a good six months now hes back to calling me again. I'm trying to be JUST friends with him, now he is offering me to come over and hang out, spend time with him. My question is what should i do? Of course he tells me he had nothing to do with my house getting broken into, but my gut is telling me otherwise.
But as long as you doubt the guy, then don't have anything to do with him.
And make sure he knows it. Tell him right now.
If he did it, then he could know he wasn't smart enough and if he didn't then 'sorry life sucks like that'.
I don't really believe in concidence so gut can be on your side this time.
dearcandore answered Tuesday October 26 2010, 7:26 pm: Listen to your gut. I'm a HUGE believer in women's intuition and I think we've been trained to ignore it. Why on earth would you want to be friends with a man you are pretty sure robbed you. Leave this guy alone before something worse happens down the road. Your gut is telling warning you. Listen to it! [ dearcandore's advice column | Ask dearcandore A Question ]
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