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not a regular fight.
me and my boyfriend of 3 years were fighting today about how i gave him 10 dollars and i was going to go get my paycheck after droping him off his friends house but ended up that my paycheck was not in so i needed that ten to get this dress. i asked for it a little upset becuase of my work being stupid. and he was like i spent it and i fliped i was like on what and he wouldnt tell me so im freaking out bcause he wont tell me then he called me names and i threatened him about stuff and now he says its over. well we have fought before but he says he cant do it anymore and i understand but im begging for him here crying and he says he doesnt want me right now and that he doesnt want to see me but cares about me and loves me and im really confused right now. i dont know what to do i told him that this is going to hurt bad for me and im not waitng around forever and i dont know. im really hurt and i dont know if he really does care i told him let me know if i need to move on and he said he doesnt want me to and he said that he doesnt want to date me or anyone right now. but i really love him. i feel alone and this sucks hes leaving in 7 months anyway across seas actually so basically its going to feel like this but now he doesnt want to be with me not that he cant be with me. i feel like a sucky person i feel like he was the only one i could talk to and he can talk to me but not anymore he hasnt been talking to me about anything and thats why i got mad about him not telling me about what he used the ten for so its like why is this happening. i just want to give up on everything. i dont know. i feel real pathetic and i dont have good friends like he was so this is tough. i need help.
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Break ups are always hard. I was with a guy for 2 1/2 years before we broke up and it really sucked. You need to get out of the begging for him back stage. As hard as this may be for you don't communicate with him. If you do communicate with him he will know that he can come back to you whenever he pleases, and that shouldn't be the case. When you lose something you tend to focus on the good things that made you happy, and that's why you miss him so much. You should focus on the bad things. If you can't think of any I can help you out. He spent your money and didn't tell you what it was on. Obviuosly it wasn't for you or he would have given it to you. He is also being extremely selfish. He doesn't want you to move on or date, well screw him, he has no power over you. Move on. Date. Let him know you don't need him, stop trying to contact him and start controlling the situation instead of sitting like a sad puppy dog at his feet. Saying he doesn't want you to date doesn't mean he won't. Don't think for two seconds that if he was asked out by a girl then he wouldn't go out with her, because he would. You need to completely switch your point of view and this will go a lot better for you. Go out with friends. If you don't have many make some. You aren't pathetic, you are human, and breakups hurt. Pick your head up and move on. If things are supposed to work out with you they will, and if not then you are just moving on with your life faster. Feel free to let me know how things go through comments, aim, or email they are on my column.
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