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Stimulating the clit
I am a 65 year old male that doesn't know much about sex and relationships so I thought I would ask and maybe try this once to see if it was appealing to both of us.
Is it better to stimulate the clitoris with a finger or through oral sex with the tongue?
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Different women enjoy different things.
Experimentation with your partner is your best bet. You can ask her what she thinks sounds best and go from there. You can try out both of the above methods and then ask her which she finds more pleasurable.
Some women don't enjoy this sort of stimulation at all.
Some women only enjoy this sort stimulation.
It's up to your partner to tell you which is best for her. If you're comfortable with doing either act then try both of them out and get her opinion on the matter. Then you know what she likes and you can do what is more pleasurable, or work on improving the techniques so that she is pleasured by both acts.
Communication is always important, even when it comes to bedroom antics. Having a healthy sex life means talking with your partner about their likes, dislikes, desires, wants, and needs. You can share ideas and are able to spice things up a little more, if you so desire. You're also able to help fantasies be fulfilled or find new developing fantasies you two can share and indulge in.
There is no right or wrong answer to this. There is no this or that answer. There is no yes or no answer. It's all up to your partner and what she finds to be more appealing and arousing.
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Actually this website is for any kind of advice and I don't see where it says not to answer a sex question.
But there is no answer to this question because it depends on the person, some women would prefer finger or tongue, so I say you ask your partner.
Good Luck =]
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