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The Younger Guys
For some reason I always get these little crushes on guys younger than I am. It hurts me to know that it'll never work out. I'm 18 anyway so it's kind of illegal anyway. I'm not going to date any of them but does any one have a reason why I might like the younger guys?
I also think it may because I'm always told I'm pretty and beautiful but that's it and it never goes any further. My two best friends both have bobyfriends and both go out on double dates together all the time. Makes me feel left out when they do that. We do hang out together other times but it still hurts that they go out on double dates and can't invite me because I'm always single.
I'm very outgoing. I'm fun. I love to party and act silly. I'm in college, but I hate it. I don't talk to anyone and nobody really looks like the care to talk to me.
I just don't understand why I go for the younger guys all the time. Then, I end up getting upset about it.
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Try not to focus so hard on what your friends are doing as far as dating goes. It stinks to feel left out but, your time will come. You may like younger guys because, as another answer indicated, they are silly and fun and so are you. There are however, silly and fun guys your age, and you will find one when the time is right. I know you said you are not social, but maybe you could join a club or a group that focuses on an interest of yours. Then you will automatically have something in common with a guy in that group from the start.good luck and don't rush it or look for it. When you are not looking, that is usually when the right guy just falls into your lap!(hopefully not literally..lol)
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Maybe it's cause no guys of your age talk to you or show much interest in actually being with you, meaning what you said that you hate college and you don't talk to anyone, well why don't you? Maybe if you start being more social and getting to know people there, you'd actually meet a good guy of your age and he'll show interest in you, and then just the feeling of someone caring for you back, is going to occupy you, being in a relationship and having someone. But right now, you just completely ignore college, and you probably go for the younger guys cause those are the people who show interest, cause ofcourse they would, younger guys would die to know someone older, and have someone older to show off in front of their friends, and they go like ' oh i'm dating a college girl, I'm cool', but they would never take you serious, cause no guy likes to get involved with a girl whose older, cause it would be weird for him, and it would seem like your the man and not him, he's like younger and childish. So you definitely have to start building some social life in college, and these love things take time,don't rush it, it will come when it comes,and you'll enjoy it then, but right now, you can enjoy the single life, it has its advantages you know, you only learn them when you are involved lol
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I think the reason you go for younger guys is because you like to have fun and your silly! It's a fact that most people who are younger are also less mature, so there going to be silly and fun also.
I know it's illegal to go for someone under the age of 18 but.. 17 year olds are in range. what guy wouldnt want to date and older woman?
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