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Q: Ok, so the story is that I live on a military base because of my dad. While I'm out here, I met a marine that I like a lot, and he likes me. Unfortunately, it's not exactly...allowed for us to be together. He's not the kind that is only interested in me for sex, especially since he hasn't gotten any and it's been two months. But since it's against the rules, he refuses to ask me to be his girlfriend, even if we keep it secret. He says it's so that if people ask me if I'm with him, I can honestly say "no." At least for the next two months, which is when I turn 18. I want him to be mine, which he says he is, and I believe him, but that title is important to me. Should I tell him that it's either all or nothing? Or that I should wait until I'm 18, and see how it plays out. Help please >.
I hate to break it to you, but you should DEFINATLY wait till your 18.

1. when your 18 youll probably be alot closer
2. if you realy love/like this guy then you need to trust that you can be together for that long!
3. if you dont follow the rules and wait till your 18 then there could be some serious consequences and you could end up getting him in alot of trouble.
4. if hes willing to wait to have sex with you and doesnt pressure you, then you should pressure him into asking you out, and breaking the rules.

Q: Hey ok so what is the best like absolute beat hair straightener/flat iron? It needs to work well for medium-thick hair, be under 30$ and actually work good. Needs to have even heat throughout. Lots of answers would be amazingggggg
I have thick hair.

my straightener is called Paul Brown Hawaii, I got it a few years ago so it might not be on sale anymore. But paul brown still sells different straighteners.

my other straightener I have is called Farenheit, I got it at Winners for i think 40 $. All i know is , its very hard to find good straighteners for a low price.

good luck.!


Q: For some reason I always get these little crushes on guys younger than I am. It hurts me to know that it'll never work out. I'm 18 anyway so it's kind of illegal anyway. I'm not going to date any of them but does any one have a reason why I might like the younger guys?

I also think it may because I'm always told I'm pretty and beautiful but that's it and it never goes any further. My two best friends both have bobyfriends and both go out on double dates together all the time. Makes me feel left out when they do that. We do hang out together other times but it still hurts that they go out on double dates and can't invite me because I'm always single.

I'm very outgoing. I'm fun. I love to party and act silly. I'm in college, but I hate it. I don't talk to anyone and nobody really looks like the care to talk to me.

I just don't understand why I go for the younger guys all the time. Then, I end up getting upset about it.
I think the reason you go for younger guys is because you like to have fun and your silly! It's a fact that most people who are younger are also less mature, so there going to be silly and fun also.

I know it's illegal to go for someone under the age of 18 but.. 17 year olds are in range. what guy wouldnt want to date and older woman?

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my name is sydney, iam 15 and i have blue eyes and brown long hair.

i love hockey, watching not playing, and im in cheerleading (still doing tryouts) and i love reading and i love writing. my favorite shows are glee and office. and waaay more, and i love watching movies alsoo. :)

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