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Obstacles in relationship
Me and my boyfriend have known each other for awhile. Dating for almost 4 months now. We used to see each other a lot, but now he started college and has a part time job. That was fine.. it was a little difficult to set up when we'll see each other. Now his sister is moving in and she has two kids who she will have my boyfriend watch. It's bad enough of that.. but she doesn't have a car, and she might take the car which will make it even harder for us to get together. If she has a job, she might have him watch them when she's away. Plus her room is right next to his, which will make things weird if I stay over. We wont be able to stay up too late or watch tv, talk too loud. Honestly.. it's just a pain. I feel as if I wont see him anymore. I can't stand it. Advice please?
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I know how that feels, it sounds awful, but your just scared and your hating the situation. But it sounds like you love each other and you always try to work things out together, so I'm sure that's just another problem that you're going to work out. There is no way that you're going to lose him because his sister moved in or that you might see him a little less than before. I know it sucks, but usually people who love each other, bare sucky situations lol to be with each other. Maybe things will just have to be a little different, you can still stay over, but try to keep things a bit quiet, maybe eventually his sister will move out again, maybe its just temporary, or maybe she'll get her own place. All in all, the situation will be temporary, maybe you can suggest getting a babysitter or something to watch the kids. Or maybe you could get to know the kids and you can hang out together while watching the kids, its still kind of fun I promise. But I don't want you to worry, I know how it feels freaking out that you'll see each other less, which means things will be less fun, which means a probability of losing each other, but eventually things get worked out, and you just find that you worried over nothing. I'm sure he's not liking the situation either, so you should bare this together, for each other, for his sake.
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