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Posted Sunday October 31 2010, 2:06 am
im in my 30 single mother of 2. i had a very difficult life. a lot of hardship n obstacle. one bad relationship after another each left me with a child. 2yrs have left me with 13yrs old boy. 9yrs a 9yrs old daughter n a miscarriage. i quit my job n spend 2 miserably yrs taking care of my mother in law sick with cancer. seeing someone u care for slow deteriorate had put a emotional toll on me. ive been through so much that living everyday life is a struggle. i use what i had left and push through. i was content with working n come home to my kids. the life was about living n making it through day.life was always unkind to me.i felt bless i found someone. i fall deeply n passionately in love. i never love any of my pass relationship as muc...
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Posted Sunday October 31 2010, 2:04 am
I'm fifteen, sophomore. It's been five months since me and this guy I dated for seven months broke up. He was my first boyfriend, first kiss, fingering, hj, and bj... It was a really unhealthy relationship and a super long story but to sum it all up, he really hurt me. He became sooo much a part of me that when we broke up I felt like I had nothing to distinguish myself with anymore. Even now, he doesn't even feel like a person to me, more like a whole part of myself. But its an empty space... We don't talk. Hang out. Nothing. But I still think about him every single day. I sometimes still cry over him... It's just wierd. Because even thoguh I hate him for all the pain and betrayl he put me through I miss him like crazy. And I feel like a d...
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Is this fair?
Posted Saturday October 30 2010, 11:19 pm
I'm 17/f and he's 20/m
We've been going on with some issues lately. He's still confusing me about some stuff if you read my past posts. Lately, I've been hurt. I know he wants to get back on track and find out what he wants to do. He wants our relationship to be hidden from his parents until he's ready, since they do not approve of me. We're limiting the time we see each other so he has space, so seeing each other everyday ended up seeing each other once a week. And once every 2 weeks, which is definitely hard for me. But I agreed to it, he needs time. But then he asked me if I was upset that he's putting other stuff above me. He says that he'll try to see me as much as he can, like see me if he gets off work early and if som...
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promise ring with no promise
Posted Saturday October 30 2010, 9:54 pm
After year and a half of being together my boyfriend got me a promise ring... except he didnt offer a promise in any way... i picked the ring out he paid for it and handed me the bag didnt tell me he loved me or anything. I gave him the ring back and it just seems like he isnt trying to make anything better at all.. what shoud i do?
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Is it lame to tell your crush's friend how you feel?
Posted Saturday October 30 2010, 5:16 pm
16/f So I like this guy and I want to tell him. But I'm wondering if it would be lame to talk to one of his best friends, a girl who is our mutual friend, about it. I was thinking that telling her might save me some possible embarrassment. But it's not full proof because even if i told her to keep it a secret she could easily tell him about it. Also, I can't help feeling that telling her instead of him just cheapens the whole thing. It makes me feel like I'm 10 or something! What is the best way to ask a guy out?
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What is going through his mind?
Posted Saturday October 30 2010, 2:02 pm
We broke up earlier so he can get back on track with his life/career. He thought a relationship was a distraction. His family doesn't like me, so when they found out we broke up. They were happy. They thought I was a bad influence on him, because for some reason he would do stuff for me and not for them. I guess... They're intimidated by me? By the power I have towards their son? But anyways, he recently told me that he still loves me because ever since we broke up he couldn't stop thinking about me. We decided to be in a "secret" relationship, but towards his parents he's single?? So we're keeping it away from his parents, and we're limiting the time we see each other. Then, just now... I told him I was scared he was going to lea...
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My boyfriend wants something but i'm scared to give it to him.
Posted Saturday October 30 2010, 8:15 am
Do I spit or swallow?
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How do I get a boyfriend
Posted Saturday October 30 2010, 2:50 am
18/F
Hi. I have a problem with guys. They just don't want to seem to date me or even hang out with me. I have never had a boyfriend, a kiss, a hug, or even held hands with a guy that I am not related to. I am now a freshman in college. I have been told I am cute/pretty/hott, I have a good figure, and my personality is great. (I hate saying this, even on here, because I'm not comfortable taking compliments or even sharing them, even with anonymous strangers.) I have made a great group of friends here at college which is new for me too. I have never had such a great group of friends who actually care about me like they do. I just don't understand why guys don't want to date me. Is there anything I can do to catch a guy's attent...
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Is it worth it?
Posted Friday October 29 2010, 11:34 pm
So , I met this guy online , and we met up and it was alright. Later on, he started talking to me about how he won't do anything to hurt me and sex is just a bonus , he only goes out with girls he knows he can have a future with. So , he told me his only ex , was killed in service and so he told me he had sex with her the first night , and then he is telling me that he wants to have that same feeling with having sex just as fast. He goes on and says how he was suppose to marry , heres an example ,
given how we are talking all the time... and the fact you make me feel the same connection I had with a girl I would have married.... I just know
seee... again...
Is this something I should be worrie...
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Crushin' on a boy who doesn't get the hint
Posted Friday October 29 2010, 8:43 pm
So I'm certain that this boy in my class likes me, but I also think that he's too afraid to do anything about it. Should I try to talk to him more and see how things progress over time? I don't understand. He stares at me, smiles, subtly compliments me, makes excuses to wait after class so we can walk together, etc, etc. I've definitely made efforts to show my feelings by talking to him, looking at him, smiling, complimenting him, and even by getting him something special for his birthday. And if that weren't enough, I definitely think that he overheard my friend talking about my crush on him while I repeatedly/panickingly tried to get her to shut up (he was really close by and she was very loud). Is it possible that he doesn't get it? Shou...
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Posted Friday October 29 2010, 7:05 pm
Is it a bad thing if i never got my cherry popped?
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Is This a Normal Marriage?
Posted Friday October 29 2010, 4:02 pm
I am 19 years old. My husband is 23. We have 3 children. The problem is we fight all the time. If i try and talk to him about stuff we just stop talking he wont say anything to me and he says it is because he doesnt want to argue. At night he ignores when the kids get up so that i always am the one the get up with them even if i have the flu or something i have something wrong with my stumoch and i have to have an ultra sound done he told me i am not going if it is going to take a long time because im not going to sit there and wait. he doesnt work when or if i get him a job he works for like a week then quits I feel like he hates me it bothers me he hardly showers he doesnt brush his teeth or wear deodarant but i love him. Is this a normal marriage or am i just pretending its normal.
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Fear of Getting Into a New Relationship
Posted Friday October 29 2010, 3:45 pm
15/f 17/m
So I've been talking to this guy for a bout three months. We've gone a few dates, hang out every weekend, kissed a few times, but haven't gone past making out. I really really like him but I don't know if I want to make this thing official. My last relationship lasted eight months and I got really hurt in the process. I'm scared of starting something new when I know it's going to end eventually and when I do it's gonna hurt. It's like, what's even the point?? Why should I set myself up for more hurt?? I know you have to take chance and its better to have loved and lostthan to have never loved at all, but in all honestly, I genuinely wish I had never started dating my last boyfriend. The pain and the betrayl (its a l...
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break up
Posted Friday October 29 2010, 9:30 am
my boyfriend and i broke up and now he is being rude to me but also flirting with me! what is wrong with him?
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does he like care for me.
Posted Friday October 29 2010, 6:05 am
usa female.. i have been friends with this guy for about 9 months we hang out and go do do things togethers we talk and when one needs something the other one is alwys there.
something happen to were he almost had to move away and he was so concerned about us that things wouldn't change. and i told him my ex was back and he wanted to no if i wanted him back i told no i wanted to be with somebody who is honest and trusting. and he said good. he's a very loving person when we do get together . he never said anything about haw i look or anything just that i make him smile . and at one point i told him to stay away from me he hounded me for 4 days tell i gave in to him. i'm usually the first one ask about hanging out he does sometimes. i...
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pet names
Posted Thursday October 28 2010, 8:13 pm
What is a cute nickname for my boyfriend? His name is brody. PLEASE help!:)
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am i being used? what is this relationship. and is it worth it?
Posted Thursday October 28 2010, 6:02 pm
hi, so im a junior in high school 16 years old. i've made out with 5 boys only one and a half where my boyfriend....long story short. i like this boy a lot, hes a year older dropped out of his senior year than he came back. we hang out at LEAST 2 times a week.. hes unbelievably gorgeous.. model material -seriously. i reach his standards- i think. i'm 5"4 and 110 pounds, not so many pimples and i dress cool. i jjust need to know WHAT IS THIS? should i end it? i dont know what it is i see him in school everyday, s he takes me home if i need a ride and he's so sweet, but in front of people i dont know if it's shyness or something but he doesnt talk to me, he barely looks in my direction. all of my friends know about him, and many of his ...
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mamma's boy
Posted Thursday October 28 2010, 1:21 pm
i'm 41 years old i'm married for 17 years and i have two teenage daughters i'm living with my husband and i feel that our marriage at the moment is falling apart he has always put his family and his mother before me and treats me as if i mean nothing to him my mother in law is a huge obstacle in our life she creates unecessary problems but as usual he will always part with her every tragedy i have been through in my life i had been through it alone but he is always there for his mother and always puts her first can somebody please help me i can no longer live knowing that i am inferior to another person i just want to feel loved by my husband
please help
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We broke up.
Posted Thursday October 28 2010, 10:56 am
17/f and he's 20/m
5 hours ago, we broke up for the first time. I mean, actually break up. I swallowed my pride and went after him asking to give me another chance. He said, he really didn't want to be in a relationship with anyone right now. His reason was because he feels like his personality isn't fit for a relationship. It sucked. He knew I was the type of girl who would not date someone that I dated once. Until I said, "if we were destined to be together, then we'll be together later. Just not now." After I said that, he asked if I actually believed in that. Later on, he said... "I hope I'll come back." He cried outside my window for a while, I couldn't believe it was over. We kissed for the last time...
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Dating new guy
Posted Thursday October 28 2010, 10:35 am
Hi all
My ex boyfriend broke up with me 4 months ago, I still really wanted to be with him but he didn't show any signs of wanting to get back together, although he said he "still wanted to be with me" and he "still loved me" He was upset when I said I didn't want to speak anymore, I felt I couldn't move on if we still spoke. I started seeing a new guy recently, and my ex boyfriend found out. He text me saying "I know you are seeing other guys so there is nothing I can do but you never know what will happen" I said what do you mean? He said "Things change, you don't know what will happen in the future. You could break up with him and then we get back together"
Why would you say that to someone you don't want to be with????
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