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does he like care for me.


Question Posted Friday October 29 2010, 6:05 am

usa female.. i have been friends with this guy for about 9 months we hang out and go do do things togethers we talk and when one needs something the other one is alwys there.
something happen to were he almost had to move away and he was so concerned about us that things wouldn't change. and i told him my ex was back and he wanted to no if i wanted him back i told no i wanted to be with somebody who is honest and trusting. and he said good. he's a very loving person when we do get together . he never said anything about haw i look or anything just that i make him smile . and at one point i told him to stay away from me he hounded me for 4 days tell i gave in to him. i'm usually the first one ask about hanging out he does sometimes. i get confussion signs from him i don't no what to think.


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Answers answered Saturday November 6 2010, 2:45 am:
He sounds like a great guy and like the perfect match for you. He sounds like he really cares for you, but like you, may be getting confusing signals.

I think you should try to be brave and tell him how you feel. Honesty is always the best option.

I hope things work out with both of you. Good Luck :)

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sousou1234567 answered Saturday October 30 2010, 9:27 am:
Boys are confusing!

But obviously he cares about you! Maybe as a friend or more than a friend.

I think you should be brave enough to ask him, in a indirect way. Because it seems like you have feelings for him as well. You refer to him as a loving person and you like hanging out with him.

Mixed signals are dangerous. So you have to be careful not to hurt yourself or him.

Good Luck =]

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alexismeverett answered Friday October 29 2010, 10:01 pm:
He absolutely cares for you..it's just difficult to tell in what way. It's very possible that he has romantic feelings for you but it is also likely that he cares for you as a good friend. The fact that he was interested in you getting back with your ex shows that he had some underlying jealousy, which can mean he likes you more than a friend. It seems like you two have all of the components of a romantic relationship except for the attraction part, maybe you should consider making a subtle move to see if there is chemistry between you. If you're not ready for that, there is no need to hurry. It is very obvious that he cares a lot about you and if you wait it out, your relationship could very well turn into something more. In the meantime, you can do secret tests on him like mentioning a hot guy and seeing if he reacts in a jealous manner. This would be a clue that he likes you. Good luck!

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