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my boyfriend and i broke up and now he is being rude to me but also flirting with me! what is wrong with him?
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Probably the fact that you are still giving him attention.. I bet you're answering him back and still talking to him right?
If so.. ignore him! Seriously. If he doesn't have anything to fuel him, he will soon stop with the rudeness.. I'm not sure who broke up with who or what went on etc, but when he sees you don't care, he's not going to have a reason to do it.
As for the flirting side, maybe he still likes you or again, he's just being immature. Time will tell, just stop responding to him and see how he reacts.
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When you break up with a guy, he has to be rude with you.
But when he realizes you don't care anymore or you aren't showing signs of desperation towards him. He gets pissed, either he treats you real bad or starts flriting with you so you'd fall for him again.
He hates being forgotten, it affects his ego.
He is confused ofcourse! So, don't go along with his flirting, try to avoid him and if he confronts you about it, make sure he knows that you want one stable answer only, without the whole "I don't want to go back but I still care about you".
Don't stay hooked on him, move on.
Good Luck =]
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He probably has mixed feelings, angry about the breakup and still crushing on you. Maybe his way of showing you he cares is being rude to you while trying to act like you're still together. It is also possible that he's doing the whole "I don't want to be in a relationship but I don't want you to move on" deal. He could be trying to string you along so that you won't find someone else, and he probably has some hostility toward you because you got him so mixed up. His ego might be undergoing some stress since you guys aren't together so he's trying to make up for it by playing the "I don't need you" game and then leading you on. You should confront him about it by saying something like, "Hey, we're just friends now so you shouldn't be flirting with me like that!" See how he responds, if he's defensive then he most likely still has feelings for you. If he brushes it off, maybe he actually is just trying to be friendly with you. Good luck!
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