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Does anal sex make you lose your virginity?


Question Posted Friday October 29 2010, 11:41 am

Does anal sex make you lose your virginity? Like is there a possibility, that a guy's penis can slip from the anal opening and enter the vagina and like pop your cherry? Or is it impossible since they are completely different openings?
Also when you start doing anal sex, it's usually very small the anus opening, so is it possible that the whole penis can fit inside like it does in the vagina? and does it affect the size of your butt in any way?
Sorry i'm asking too many questions, but I really hope that whoever replies can give me full information and really help me,not brief answers. Thankyou so much.


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Peeps answered Friday October 29 2010, 8:14 pm:
Yes, you can have your hymen broken during anal sex by the penis accidentally slipping from the anus into the vagina.

Anal sex carries a lot of disease risk. Think of it this way:

A homosexual male gets AIDS but doesn't know it (his test doesn't show positive yet--sometimes these things take years before they show positive for infection)

He has sex with another male.

This, typically, means he puts his penis into another man's anus.

He transfers the AIDS to the next man through that sort of intercourse without even knowing he had an STD.

Are those gay men virgins?

Even though they had anal SEX and contracted a SEXUALLY transmitted disease?

Anal sex is sex. Sex brings a lot of risks. It can spread deadly diseases fast and you might not even know it for weeks, months, or even years in some cases.

There's no way to know if your partner is 100% disease-free unless you went to the clinic with them when they got their STD/STI test. Many clinics won't even test for some diseases like herpes without your specific request. Then, even at that, there is absolutely NO test on Earth that will tell you if your partner has any of the over 100 strains of HPV (and, by the way, if you got the HPV vaccine shot you're only "safe" from 4 of those strains). Anal warts is probably something you don't want to deal with.

Anal sex can very well transfer illnesses. It's important to always be picky when choosing a sexual partner. Always use condoms so that your risk is lowered (you can still contract STDs though). Get a full STD test every 6 months and require all of your partners to do the same thing.

Take care of yourself, most of all. This is your body. This is your life. Don't destroy it right away by doing something stupid.

You can contract STDs by engaging in ANY form of sex. You can get them from vaginal sex. You can get them from anal sex. You can get them from oral sex. You can even get them by masturbating other people in some cases.

Among the diseases with which anal sex is associated are HIV, anal cancer (seriously), typhoid fever, and various diseases associated with the infectious nature of fecal matter or sexual intercourse in general. Among these are: Amoebiasis; Chlamydia; Cryptosporidiosis; E. coli infections; Giardiasis; Gonorrhea; Hepatitis A; Hepatitis B; Hepatitis C; Herpes simplex; Human papillomavirus (HPV); Lymphogranuloma venereum; Pubic lice; Salmonellosis; Shigella; Syphilis; Tuberculosis. Using condoms will decrease these risks; however, they do not protect 100%.

Physical damage to the rectum and anus are serious and hemorrhoids, anal fissures, and rectal prolapse may occur. Damage is more likely if communication is poor or if technique is clumsy; condoms do not help protect against this sort of damage. Basically, if you don't know what you're doing or you end up doing something wrong by accident you may end up in the emergency room having surgery or stitches too.

Small tears that can happen during anal sex can easily become infected. The membrane inside the rectum is VERY thin and fragile so it tears very easily. Even if there seems to be no complications the tears can be very irritating and can become inflamed later on. It doesn't matter how "gentle" your partner is, your will probably suffer some tearing and possibly even some bleeding. It can also become uncomfortable for you to pass a stool afterward.

It is also very easy to get a vaginal infection from anal intercourse if your partner enters the vagina after being in the anus. Even if he knows not to enter the vagina afterward, he may accidentally slip. The infection would be bacterial can actually do major damage to you--rendering you infertile. Really, anal sex is more likely to result in an infection than vaginal sex would.

Incontinence has also been reported from engaging in anal sex. Basically this means that the anal sphincter loosens up from the activity. This also means that anal leakage can become an issue for the receiving end. It also may mean the inability to completely control your bowels when needed.

The sperm (semen, ejaculatory fluid, or cum) is NOT what carries the disease. It's the penis itself in many cases. So, even if your partner pulls out and does not cum inside of you then you still are at a very high risk to contract infectious diseases.

The anal opening will enlarge from the sexual act, just as the vagina stretches after engaging in sexual acts.

And, for a note, look at this image and think how far apart the anus really is to the vagina:

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Seriously, it isn't that far away and slippage is very, very common. If the thrust is "in the moment" then fecal matter can be pushed quite far into your vagina and a bacterial infection can start. Even if you were a "virgin" to begin with.

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