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How do I get a boyfriend
18/F
Hi. I have a problem with guys. They just don't want to seem to date me or even hang out with me. I have never had a boyfriend, a kiss, a hug, or even held hands with a guy that I am not related to. I am now a freshman in college. I have been told I am cute/pretty/hott, I have a good figure, and my personality is great. (I hate saying this, even on here, because I'm not comfortable taking compliments or even sharing them, even with anonymous strangers.) I have made a great group of friends here at college which is new for me too. I have never had such a great group of friends who actually care about me like they do. I just don't understand why guys don't want to date me. Is there anything I can do to catch a guy's attention? You might want to know that I am rather shy and dress kind of conservatively (but I'm not afraid to show a little clevage). Can anybody help me please understand why I haven't had a boyfriend even though people keep telling me I'm so great??
Thanks in advance!! :D
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The first thing to rememeber is that having a boyfriend isn't the most important thing in life. It's great that you have a great group of friends.
Maybe you just haven't found the right guy. But you will. Don't worry. Good things take time. Might be abit hard to get there. Break some hearts, have your heart-broken. But it will all be worth it.
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Well I'm sure there are guys that would want to date you. If you start to get interested in a guy then try to find some way to talk to them and be cool with them and maybe become friends. Usually, when you're friends with a guy and you guys are into each other, a relationship would be better. Don't change who you are for any guy though. Pretty much, be yourself and show guys that you are worth their time. Don't stress about it too much. Good luck!
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Maybe you just give off an unnaproachable feeling. Girls who think that they are cute/hot/pretty are normally kind of stand offish. Instead of waiting for a guy to come to you, go to them. Your 18 years old.
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