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Jealousy
If you're going to tell me that this is wrong, stupid, immature, against God's wishes (I'm an Athiest) and/or to be myself, please don't respond.
There is this girl that I really dislike in school. She is fake and very annoying. I guess you could call her my "frenemy" in a way. We're friends and be talk but I secrety hate her. How can I make her jealous?
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I know how it feels to want to make someone feel jealous. But it's rude. In a way, bullying. YOU are the better person. YOU need to be the one to behave. Overall, being the better person will make you feel so much better.
Please just take a bit of time to think about this. Imagine it is the other way around. Would you want her to make you feel jealous? Making someone feel bad, shouldn't make you feel good.
I really hope you will realise this is a mistake, before it's too late.
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You be the bigger, more mature, person and move forward without them.
You've, seriously, asked this very question at least 6 times now. You're beginning to obsess over this sort of thing. Please, reconsider your actions.
Based on other questions you've asked, you sound like a nice enough girl. Why you willingly want someone to dislike or even hate you is beyond me. Once one person begins disliking you other people tend to follow. Others see your actions and say, "Wow, that nice girl isn't so nice...hmmm...maybe I don't want to be her real friend after all."
Wanting to hurt someone, physically or emotionally, just because you feel "you can" is pretty wrong, stupid, and immature. Adults don't behave in this manner and neither should you if you want respect from others, especially adults.
While you can:
Ignore her
Flirt with her crush
Give her wrong answers (tests, homework)
Not invite her to parties
Give her the wrong directions to parties
Invite her over to a sleepover and not be home
Tell her that her crush wants to talk to her
Tell her crush she likes him but is [nasty, sleezy, a tramp, etc.]
Give her a piece of clothing that looks terrible on her (but tell her it's great)
None of it is going to really matter. You're only doing yourself wrong. I know someone who was tossed around by who he thought was a friend and still, 20 years later, talks about how much his feelings were hurt that the person didn't come out and say, "Hey, I really just don't want to be your friend."
Nobody likes to be bullied. Nobody likes bullying. Making someone jealous, hurting their feelings, or, excuse me, "crushing your enemy" is similar to bullying.
With 6 questions on this very subject, I think you're going entirely too far. You're older than 13 and you should know better than want to take revenge all of the time or hurt other people. It concerns me that you feel this is justified in your head.
Have you thought to seek counseling to resolve these sorts of hidden feelings and resentments? It's alarming that you continue to ask the same question, in a different format, over and over again. Being in the psychology field, this sort of activity screams that you have some serious mental health issues that need to be sorted out before you grow older.
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well you can try and find out who she has a crush on and hang out with that guy or just like seriously out dress her or something make sure guys notice just you when you two hang out if she does have a crush find out where he's hanging out and go with your frienemy but don't tell her that he's going to be there tell her it's not a very smart place so she won't really dress and you can bump into this guy there and he'll notice just you! hope this helps
best of luck
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This is wrong, and immature.
Honestly you shouldn't act like yourself, because obviously that's not doing you any good.
If you really feel the need to make yourself feel better by making someone else jealous than your not that great of a person yourself.
My advice, don't pretend to be someones friend if you don't like em. You look like an idiot.
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