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mamma's boy
i'm 41 years old i'm married for 17 years and i have two teenage daughters i'm living with my husband and i feel that our marriage at the moment is falling apart he has always put his family and his mother before me and treats me as if i mean nothing to him my mother in law is a huge obstacle in our life she creates unecessary problems but as usual he will always part with her every tragedy i have been through in my life i had been through it alone but he is always there for his mother and always puts her first can somebody please help me i can no longer live knowing that i am inferior to another person i just want to feel loved by my husband
please help
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The most important thing is that you have a long, serious discussion with your husband about how you are feeling. Honesty is best!
I'm sure he does love you. I don't know how to explain why he might be doing this. You need to DEMAND honesty from him.
Good Luck (:
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You gotta get your husband and sit him down for a serious discussion.
You have to yell in his face and tell him how he makes you feel. You have to make him see the seriousness behind your feelings, that you are willing to no longer live knowing that you are second choice in his life.
If he is your first choice, then you gotta be his or else you are giving more than he is in the marriage, and that is not balancing. Marriage is all about balance.
You have said it, Your husband is a mamma's boy.
But you have to treat this situation in an adult attuide since you have two teenage daughters. As much as you should think about yourself in this marriage and about your happiness, you have to also think about your daaughters.
Marriage counceling can really help if you get your husband to go with you.
But there might be a chance he wouldn't. If he didn't co-operate, then you should show him where he stands and that he is not a fully adult.
You should talk to your daughters about it so in the future if you decide to leave him, they wouldn't blame you.
And I think you should seek a family or a friend's help.
Good Luck =]
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I am not sure what to tell you other than you arent alone. I am only 19 and I am two young children and a step son. I feel totally alone like the only person I have to talk to his my kids. Do what your heart tells you. You deserve to be happy.
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