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help safe my marriage.
Posted Tuesday November 9 2010, 9:14 pm
This is my last attempt to safe my marriage. I have tried and tried and no luck. I asked my husband to attend a marriage counsling session with me. He said yes unwillingly though. The day came and he decided to tell me he didnt want to go he wanted to try and work things out our self. Obviously weve been trying that and its been a no go. So this time I wrote down all the stuff that has been bothering me and he wrote his. We also wrote good things down. Well he asked me about what he wrote. I said I dont 100% agree with what you wrote. I asked him about what I wrote he said.. its nothing I havent heard from you before I said should that not be telling you something then if i have to keep saying it to you. What can I do to make this through his head. I am unhappy but i truely love him.
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Guys who are in relationships... do they often start liking other girls
Posted Tuesday November 9 2010, 8:48 pm
..or do they just STOP liking the one they're with, when they break up with them, even if someone new isn't on the horizon?
Please note that this isn't related to me, it's just something I've always wondered.
It especially makes me wonder about men when really nice guys, or guys who seem that way, act so flirtatious with their gal pals but still have a steady relationship. Do they even realize they're flirting?
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heels?! prom?! boyfriend?!
Posted Tuesday November 9 2010, 7:42 pm
Welll junior prom is coming up soon and im going with my boyfriend but the problem is were the SAME height and i dont wannt to be taller than him at prom :( but i HAVE to wear heals what do i do?! (i look really gay in ballet flats)
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stuck in between 2 guys
Posted Tuesday November 9 2010, 5:12 pm
18/f
help! i'm caught in between 2 guys who i both love so much..
here's the story. so i went out with this guy (A) for a year and we were great. but then he broke up with me last spring. Then I started dating a new guy (B) and we have been going out for 3 months. B and I have gotten into a lot of fights lately. and they haven't even been fights about serious things.. its always about really stupid things. like he got mad at me for "bailing" on him when we were supposed to hang out but i felt sick so i went home. we've had so many fights over really ridiculous things, so i broke up with him. Now A wants to get back together with me and he told me that he's really sorry and learned his lesson. he broke...
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The True Sad Story of My Ruined Childhood.
Posted Monday November 8 2010, 10:36 pm
My parents were divorced at the age of two.
I am an only child. and my mommy has always been a single hardworking mom.
My mom began to work night shifts when i was 12 years old. At that age i was still what you could call innocent. i had no intention what so ever of doing anything "wrong". After i turned thirteen i began watching porn while my mother was gone. i started meeting waaaay older guys and since they had cars i would invite them to my house. that all began around december. at first it was just making out. and during the month of december and january it was with only one guy. in the middle of january i met another older guy and he too began coming to my house at night. around february i made the biggest mist...
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How to get girlfriend back who says she loves you.
Posted Monday November 8 2010, 9:51 pm
My girlfriend just broke up with me and we were both really sad. I'm an 18 year old male and she is 18 as well. she is the first girl i've had sex with. after a few days she told me i have to fight with her and talk to her more and we will get back together. i asked her how i'm doing and she said very good. but she has been really weird lately. she said i can't rush her with these things when i just asked how i'm doing. i love her a lot and she says she loves me too. but it just doesn't seem like she does. i'm getting more sad and more sad everyday and idk what to do.
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Always in a triangle.
Posted Monday November 8 2010, 8:15 pm
So about 3 years ago I was in a love triangle between my first love and the one who stole it. I left my first love for another guy but never fully got over him. I'm always way too sentimental. I knew I had to choose between the two of them instead of playing with both of their hearts...I didn't mean to intentionally I just felt like I loved them both equally. Well long story short I ended up losing both of them on bad notes and never hearing from them again. Went through A good 2 year depression until I felt comfortable to start dating again. Well about 7 months ago I had met this 17 year old at this school called job corps academy and My attraction for him was there imediantly. It took a while to get over his age because i'm 19 going on 20...
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Ex saying sorry
Posted Monday November 8 2010, 8:07 am
My ex boyfriend (who broke up with me 3 months ago) text me saying he still loves me and can't get over me. But he isn't sure what he wants. He apologised for how he's treated me since we broke up and the day later he text me again saying he did mean what he said yesterday.
I'm so confused :/ What does he want? Attention?
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Oh no what do I do , please help me
Posted Sunday November 7 2010, 10:02 pm
So I met this guy and we got together the second time , and so when we did the second time because the first time we met in public and then before the second time and so he said he wanted me to be comfortable to have sex with him that whole week so he could have sex with me that last day(friday) and so I told him no right and then he said if I was there he'd have my shirt up and off and everything and later on I told him that I didnt want it and he said its insulting that I dont trust him after knowing him of two weeks and he said he wont go anywhere until the movies until stable relationship so today I felt bad because I made another excuse and then i went and seen him and he went right into making out up my shirt tried down my pants whil...
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Is 8 years too long to wait for marriage
Posted Sunday November 7 2010, 8:04 pm
Is 8years too long to wait for marriage
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I wanna break up with my boyfriend but he keeps pulling me back!
Posted Sunday November 7 2010, 5:26 pm
ohkay so i wanna break up with my boyfriend bhut everytime i do he pulls me back in because i think hes cheating on me everytime he updates his status it sayss 11-3-10 and our date is 9-22-10 and hes always telling me that its his court date or his baby bro bday but it says i dont ever want to end us and its a new lie everyday and he keeps saying how he doesnt cheat on girls and he wont ever do it to me and i dont what to do anymoree
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Boyfriend Problems
Posted Sunday November 7 2010, 11:57 am
17/f
My boyfriend and I have been dating for over 20 months now. We havent had sex yet, but we have been talking about it recently. I love him to death but I am really upset right now and am not sure how to talk to him about it.
More or less, our relationship is great. Hes everything I could ever want. However, it seems whenever he goes out with a few certain friends that he does whatever he can to upset me. Last night, as a joke he randomly texted me (after not talking to me all day) "So Im going to go get drunk with A and B and go to a strip club. Love you. Bye" Hes just started university so I understand he may want to try new things (drinking is fairly new to him too) but I was just a little hurt by the b...
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Waste of Time? Or Does He Like Me?
Posted Sunday November 7 2010, 10:11 am
Ok! So I'm a junior and i like this freshman kid (please, no comment!. I didn't really like him until I started thinking he liked me. Of course, now that I do, I'm not sure if he likes me or not! I know this is very juvenile, but when we're on facebook chat he never says hi, and I texted him one time and he said gave be an enthusiastic hi but then that he was busy and he never texted me after that. Is that a definite no (that he doesn't like me)- should i try and get over him? I just dont know because he flirts with me like crazy in person...So frustrating!
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I am the victim of William Suh, but I love him!
Posted Sunday November 7 2010, 3:49 am
Hey. 15/f, It may help if you go to google and search "William Suh Arrest". And read the articles first. But once you read that, read this. Im the victim in the charge, and although its almost two years later...I dont know what to do. I still miss/love him so much. And I know he loves me to. We wrote 2 letters to eachother, and in both he expresses how much he love's and misses me. and how he cant wait to be home.
Its complicated, but although he is 11 years older then me... I love him...How do I get over this so I can finally move on?
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He was using me for a pre-college fling, but I still love him
Posted Sunday November 7 2010, 12:22 am
17/f
its my senior year, it would have been our one year on october 13th... (hes 18 graduated last year) basically he left me for another girl this september.. & she didnt want him. he came back to me, and i am deeply in love with him.. took him back. things are just different, we got into a deep conversation the other day, he said "were not going to last when you go to college anyways" .. i said "what am i doing with us then?" and he said "were just having a good time untill then" like are you kidding me.. at that moment i ended it. HONESTly i love this boy but am i right or am i wrong. Its hard cause my mind says im right but my heart screams his name and it echos inside me
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get over him
Posted Saturday November 6 2010, 10:08 pm
how do i get over my crush that i see everyday? he said he doesn't like me but we're still friends. i think it's going to be awkward though. help! thanks.
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girls, i need advice about fingering
Posted Saturday November 6 2010, 10:06 pm
So this guy wants to finger me and it'd be my first time that someone else has done it to me, and what do i do when he does?
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Did I cheat?
Posted Saturday November 6 2010, 11:09 am
Ok, so me and this guy, we'll call him Bob, have become pretty close. He hasn't asked me to officially be his yet, but it's at that point where we might as well be. Well, the other night, I got kinda drunk, and I ended up kissing a long-time friend who's been crushin on me the whole time we've known each other. Actually, it was more like make-out. Afterwards, I felt really guilty, and he reminded me that I am still technically single. When I told my best friend, she yelled at me and told me that I did cheat. Now, I feel kind of guilty and kind of not. I don't wanna tell Bob, but I also don't wanna screw up a potentially really good relationship. Advice on what I should do?
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Is this rape?
Posted Saturday November 6 2010, 9:26 am
Me and my bf broke up because i found out he was using me for my money and 2 days after i told him to come see me and we were sitting in his car outside of my house and when we were done talkin i told him good bye for the last time and he started getn aggressive then he pushed me and the back seat and pinned my hands down and had sex with me. Idk if this is rape or not. Anyways i might be pregnant idk what should i do?
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I let him go too far...
Posted Saturday November 6 2010, 12:39 am
I started dating this guy freshman year (last year) when I was fourteen. He was a sophomore and sixteen. Well, we had a pretty good relationship in the begining. We had fun and laughs and he made me feel special and all that jazz... Well after about two months of dating, while we would be making out, he would slip his hand down my pants. And I'd pull it out... He'd put it back, and I'd pull it out... and it just kinda went like taht. We never really talked about it... then one night I don't know what happened but I just let him finger me... And I dunno, it didn't feel like a big deal at the time. After that things in our relationship started changing. He got a lot more possessive and mean and I became a whipped little puppy dog to him. I wo...
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