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Ex saying sorry


Question Posted Monday November 8 2010, 8:07 am

My ex boyfriend (who broke up with me 3 months ago) text me saying he still loves me and can't get over me. But he isn't sure what he wants. He apologised for how he's treated me since we broke up and the day later he text me again saying he did mean what he said yesterday.

I'm so confused :/ What does he want? Attention?


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jujubeann answered Tuesday November 9 2010, 4:10 pm:
well it is hard to get over someone you love.
i think that if you still love him, that you should try things again with him only if you both take it slow and dont make the same mistakes you guys did in your previous relationship.
or the second option would be good friends.

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nikz answered Monday November 8 2010, 3:49 pm:
i personally think that this is just a typical guy thing he probably wanted to see your reaction to this to see if you're still in love with him i think that by now he would know what he wants because remember absence makes the heart grow fonder so he shouldn't really be confused if he wanted you back honestly he would have did something about it by now i understand its hard but i think you gotta try and forget about him it's for the best

best of luck

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Sami143 answered Monday November 8 2010, 10:55 am:
Well he obvously cares about you just isnt sure what he wants. You need to talk to him and tell him that he needs to decide what he wants because he cant just keep dragging your heart around like this. He either wants to be with you or he dosnt. End of story. If he wants to be with you, he will. If not you guys either need to stay friends or quit talking period. But it is really up to both of you.

Hope this helped!(:
If you need anything else feel free to message me personally!

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liricospinto answered Monday November 8 2010, 10:13 am:
I think a lot depends on why he broke up with you, and how the relationship was when you were together. Sometimes people do make mistakes out of fear or from their own stuff, and regret it later. However, the fact that he isn't sure what he wants may be a warning sign that he's a commitment-phobe; he may regret the breakup but isn't ready to give you what you need. It's probably worth talking to him (in person) to hear what he has to say, so that you can make a fully informed decision.

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