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help safe my marriage.
This is my last attempt to safe my marriage. I have tried and tried and no luck. I asked my husband to attend a marriage counsling session with me. He said yes unwillingly though. The day came and he decided to tell me he didnt want to go he wanted to try and work things out our self. Obviously weve been trying that and its been a no go. So this time I wrote down all the stuff that has been bothering me and he wrote his. We also wrote good things down. Well he asked me about what he wrote. I said I dont 100% agree with what you wrote. I asked him about what I wrote he said.. its nothing I havent heard from you before I said should that not be telling you something then if i have to keep saying it to you. What can I do to make this through his head. I am unhappy but i truely love him.
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If things are really as bad as you think, time apart is always a choice. Let him and yourself go away for about a week or two and see what feelings come out. If things don't change then yes, (as the person below said:) go to counseling and see where it goes from there. But react, its always good for a man to see a reaction. Good luck!
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loook... i might be young and all but dont give up on your marraige. keep tryingg to fix things and if things get bettter than im happy for you! but if they get worse then you both should probably go to counseling if you want to save your marraige and be happy again.
hope i helped!
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