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Guys who are in relationships... do they often start liking other girls
..or do they just STOP liking the one they're with, when they break up with them, even if someone new isn't on the horizon?
Please note that this isn't related to me, it's just something I've always wondered.
It especially makes me wonder about men when really nice guys, or guys who seem that way, act so flirtatious with their gal pals but still have a steady relationship. Do they even realize they're flirting?
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Some guys just have a natural state of flirtacious. Like it's them to just flirt naturally. This does not necessarily mean that they like the other girl. Usually guys who are younger (Middle/High school) try to get the girl to break up with them in some way or they go right ahead and flirt with the new girl they like. Guys can find other girls attractive and might stare and all, but that does not mean they like them. If a guy is bold enough, they'll go right ahead and break up with the girl and try to go for the new one.
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Basically the simple answer to all your questions is "sometimes" :)
The longer answer is that guys and situations are different. Sometimes one may stop liking the person one is with. Other times one may find someone else.
Now, what you want to watch out for is guys who have a tendency to move from one girl to another. Guys who get bored easily for example, or who are always looking for the first love sort of feeling. Its more about the pattern with each individual guy rather than with our gender as a whole. I actually do not think we are any different from females in this respect.
As for the flirting... again it depends on the guy. Some (maybe even many guys) may not be aware that they are flirting. Some may not even regard it as flirting. If I had to guess I would say that probably most guys would fall into one of those categories... but, like before, there would be some guys who are perfectly aware of what they are doing.
Not much of a definite answer I know, but guys really are quite different from one another.
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