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I am the victim of William Suh, but I love him!


Question Posted Sunday November 7 2010, 3:49 am

Hey. 15/f, It may help if you go to google and search "William Suh Arrest". And read the articles first. But once you read that, read this. Im the victim in the charge, and although its almost two years later...I dont know what to do. I still miss/love him so much. And I know he loves me to. We wrote 2 letters to eachother, and in both he expresses how much he love's and misses me. and how he cant wait to be home.
Its complicated, but although he is 11 years older then me... I love him...How do I get over this so I can finally move on?


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Crystalysesmommy answered Sunday November 7 2010, 10:37 am:
I understand that you have feelings for this person. He has gotten other girls like you under his wings and he may not be a bad guy in your eyes but if he can threaten you or your family and other girls and there family then thats not a healthy relationship and you need to seek help from a therapist or a friend and talk it out because this isn't a easy think to get over.

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NinjaNeer answered Sunday November 7 2010, 9:41 am:
If you love yourself, run and don't look back.

This guy was arrested for being with you. Five years previous, he was arrested for being with someone else. He threatened you, he threatened your family, he threatened your friends. He did this to another underage girl, and he was looking for more girls to target when he was arrested. He's not the sort of person you can build a life with.

You need professional help to get over something like this. A therapist can help you to find out why you're seeking approval in dangerous ways and help you to figure out what you really want in life. You were sexually abused, and you need to confront that.

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Sweet_LiL_Angel answered Sunday November 7 2010, 7:41 am:
I would stay away from this man. You love the fact that he wants to be with you but why would a man in their right mind want to be witha female so much younger. He is a petifile and has been charged once before being with you for being with a minor. Has also been charged for carrying a weapon. You are 15 and you are young. there are tons of guys out there it sounds like you made a poor judgement call about this man. I feel you should live your life as a teenager and move on. YOu can get over this see a theripist.

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