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He was using me for a pre-college fling, but I still love him
17/f
its my senior year, it would have been our one year on october 13th... (hes 18 graduated last year) basically he left me for another girl this september.. & she didnt want him. he came back to me, and i am deeply in love with him.. took him back. things are just different, we got into a deep conversation the other day, he said "were not going to last when you go to college anyways" .. i said "what am i doing with us then?" and he said "were just having a good time untill then" like are you kidding me.. at that moment i ended it. HONESTly i love this boy but am i right or am i wrong. Its hard cause my mind says im right but my heart screams his name and it echos inside me
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I went through the SAME THING exactly!!! Accept I left him before he told me we wouldnt last...it was obvious. TO THIS DAY, his name is in my heart...I think about him...imagine how my life would be if we were still together...we had that perfect love. he is not with another girl, she is beautiful and the most perfect woman for him...but i know in my mind i deserve to be treated better and not be dropped at any second for the next girl who comes along. my advicce...the guys that make your heart melt r ass holes...its sad but true. you should leave it where it is and move on. It will take tremendous strength, but some day you will be able to know what I am talking about and tell your little girl about the boy you loved and how he broke your heart, hopefully she will learn and not have to go through it. and girl, right now your still young! you have too much time to have fun right now, dont waste it on guys. its the only thing I would have changed about my life...because right after i left my mr. right..i found a rebound and now have a baby girl. you only live once....enjoy your teenage years and save love for your 20s when the boys turn into men :)
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She is right he was a jerk,and a scum bad for using you.Honestly all girls have been there.Its hard to get over a guy that yo care for.Truth is you will alws feel that pain,but one d you will wake up and relize that you can breath.That you can go on without him.It will take time but you are a strong person,and you will find someone who loves you.Not someone who wants to use you.
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It is hard to get over someone that you had strong feelings for but those feelings fade. Once you start college it will get easier you will have a lot on your mind. He sounds like a jerk. He is and was using you. Your first clue was leaving you for a nother girl and coming back because she didn't want him. He is using you for a "relationship: but as soon as hed meet another girl that actually liked him back he would dump you. stay strong and good luck.
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You made the right choice. This guy isn't worth your time. It will be really hard to get over him but sometimes things need to happen. If you wanted something more from him and he didn't want that, he is a big waste of your time. You need to find someone better. I hope everything works out for you. Good luck!
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Your mind is right. It is very hard to listen to the good judgment of your head when your heart is involved, but in the long run, you will be glad you did. This boy already betrayed you once -- why would you let him do it again? He clearly doesn't have much respect for you, and just wants "a good time." You have the choice to respect yourself, and tell him to have a good time elsewhere. Your instinct is correct. Let him go, and know that there are better things in your future.
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