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girls, i need advice about fingering So this guy wants to finger me and it'd be my first time that someone else has done it to me, and what do i do when he does?
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One question I have would be: do you want him to do this? If you don't, please tell him no. It's okay not to be ready for this, so make sure you're genuinely all right with the idea.
If you are, it's important to be aware that if you are used to touching yourself, he will be touching you from a very different angle, and he may not understand how to touch you. Every woman's anatomy is different. It is important that you feel comfortable letting him know how you like to be touched. Many men go straight for direct pressure on the clitoris, not realizing that this is very painful until full arousal is reached. You may need to show him how you like to be touched, and it's okay for you to do that. A good thing to say is, "That feels really good, and I like this, too," and then show him what you like. ]
its pretty enjoyable although if its your first time it might hurt but as he keeps doing it, the pain will lessen. ]
Sit back and relax and enjoy haha no but for real relax dont be so tense or he'll think you dont like it and he'll stop ]
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