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Oh no what do I do , please help me


Question Posted Sunday November 7 2010, 10:02 pm

So I met this guy and we got together the second time , and so when we did the second time because the first time we met in public and then before the second time and so he said he wanted me to be comfortable to have sex with him that whole week so he could have sex with me that last day(friday) and so I told him no right and then he said if I was there he'd have my shirt up and off and everything and later on I told him that I didnt want it and he said its insulting that I dont trust him after knowing him of two weeks and he said he wont go anywhere until the movies until stable relationship so today I felt bad because I made another excuse and then i went and seen him and he went right into making out up my shirt tried down my pants while I told him before no and then went down his pants and then he asked me so many times for a blowjob and i was like what about next time.. and all that right? and i felt bad so i went down on him twice my pants were on and his were off , but he didnt do his big cum explosion. am I pregnant? and i went to check myself and i had white stuff , but is that just from me? because pants and undies were on and everything so

thank you betty


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Additional info, added Sunday November 7 2010, 11:29 pm:
the white stuff was dried , but no i didnt let him down my pants or anything.

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liricospinto answered Sunday November 7 2010, 11:25 pm:
Betty,

First of all, you should never, never, never feel pressured into having sex or sexual contact. Two weeks is not long enough for many women to feel comfortable making sexual contact. For your own safety, you should not have any unprotected contact without exchanging STD panel test results. You can easily get HIV or herpes from giving blowjobs. You need to be okay with saying no, and learn to protect your health and safety.

That being said, it is not possible to get pregnant from giving a blowjob. From your post, it sounds as if you did not have any contact between his genitals and yours, but it's a little hard to tell. If indeed you did not have genital contact or penetration, it is very unlikely that you could be pregnant. If you were feeling aroused, your own lubrication may be what you were seeing.

You don't have to have sex to get a guy to like you. Be careful, and take care of yourself. You get to choose what you do, and when you do it.

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