How to get girlfriend back who says she loves you.
Question Posted Monday November 8 2010, 9:51 pm
My girlfriend just broke up with me and we were both really sad. I'm an 18 year old male and she is 18 as well. she is the first girl i've had sex with. after a few days she told me i have to fight with her and talk to her more and we will get back together. i asked her how i'm doing and she said very good. but she has been really weird lately. she said i can't rush her with these things when i just asked how i'm doing. i love her a lot and she says she loves me too. but it just doesn't seem like she does. i'm getting more sad and more sad everyday and idk what to do.
You need to ignore her for a while. If she contacts you, fine answer the phone, text her back, or whatever, but just stop initiating the contact and let her be.
Meanwhile, ask other girls out. Find something else to do to take your mind off of her. You might find a girl that's a lot better than her and appreciates you more.
jujubeann answered Tuesday November 9 2010, 4:04 pm: aww i think you should just give her some space, and she will miss you not always being there, thereforr she will want you back. [ jujubeann's advice column | Ask jujubeann A Question ]
PinkVsBlue answered Tuesday November 9 2010, 10:18 am: This is tough one. She wants to see that you care about her, this is why she wants you to fight with her and talk with her more. I think the way she is going about this though, is a bit silly. I would talk to her about it. At the end of the day you cant do more than just try and show her you care. But if she isn't willing to put in effort as well, it won't work. Sorry. I know that's not the greatest thing to be told.
Talk to her about it all. Tell her you care about her but you also want to know where you stand.
chevybab answered Tuesday November 9 2010, 2:31 am: Wow that is tough.First thing I think its stupid she wants you to fight with her.Yes fighting is a good way to show your diffrences,but if she truly loves you she should be happy that you guys arnt fighting.I know loving someone is hard expecially when you feel like your alone in it.I think you should stick by her if you really think she loves you back it will be worth it.But if she is pushing you away you need to confront her and tell her how you feel.Its not fair for her to keep you on the side lines.You desirve to be happy,in the end thats all you should look for is your own happyness.I hope I helped good luck [ chevybab's advice column | Ask chevybab A Question ]
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