Ok! So I'm a junior and i like this freshman kid (please, no comment!. I didn't really like him until I started thinking he liked me. Of course, now that I do, I'm not sure if he likes me or not! I know this is very juvenile, but when we're on facebook chat he never says hi, and I texted him one time and he said gave be an enthusiastic hi but then that he was busy and he never texted me after that. Is that a definite no (that he doesn't like me)- should i try and get over him? I just dont know because he flirts with me like crazy in person...So frustrating!
advice_gurl101 answered Sunday November 7 2010, 2:12 pm: Hi. I remember what it was like in high school. Gosh, guys are confusing. Now in college, guys are still the same. Gosh, I wish they can just tell us what they want, so girls don't have to do the guessing game of: does he like me or not? Well I think he may like you. But, some guys don't like talking on facebook chat. And when you text him he gave enthusiastic hi, than that may be a good sign.If he didn't text back it probably he was really busy and forgot. Sometimes that happens. But you should try texting him again and see what happens. If he flirts with you like crazy, sign that he likes you. And also look for other signs like, does he always offer to walk you to class, etc. The guy who likes me always want to be around me and all his friends always tell me he can't shut up about me. and if it comes down to it and you are still confused, then come to him and say, "Hey, can you be honest with me? Like be honest with me. Do you like me?"
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nikz answered Sunday November 7 2010, 2:11 pm: well he's just being one of those guys that flirts with you whenever he feels like it honestly most guys are like that but we just have to deal with it, now truth time:
if he really did like you he would want to speak to you all the time even if it is on facebook so it's like he does't even care and probably thinks that he is obligated to flirt with you when he sees you in person, personally i think you should get over him because he's acting real immature and don't you think that if he really liked you he would have asked you out by now? so my advice would be to forget about him he sounds like trouble
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