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does he like me?
Posted Wednesday December 8 2010, 9:16 pm
there is this guy i like ..he is keep staring at me since the begining of the year..we have spanish class together..&& now when i start liking him, i' not sure if he likes me or not! he talks to everyone in the class except me..&& he sits right next to me..i have him on facebook, but we never talked..i want to talk to him buh i want him to start talking to me first..he only stares at me when we r in class together && then when we r in hallways, he just ignore me..sometimes i think he really likes me n then sometimes i think he likes someone else..or maybe he stares because he thinks i like him!
in class, wherever i go , he follows me.. i really want to get his attention && idk how to make him ...
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Posted Wednesday December 8 2010, 8:26 pm
Whats going on? This guy Im ''dating'' use to talk to me all the time right? like we would text more then 50 texts a day , and now he changed.. he didn't tell me had a job , he never told me about his ex that I seen on facebook STILL in a relationship , he now never really answers my texts only if it's important which is like no 6 -10 text's a day , is he busy or? Before I was checking on him , and my bestfriend made an account and apparently he responded saying oh let's meet up and want to do sexual stuff and then he said it was his bestfriend , and his bestfriend sent me a 5 paragraph saying it was him , and not this guy. Also , he before is always like lets hang out please , and kept asking and now he is just like alright.. and on his fa...
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How do i trust someone?
Posted Wednesday December 8 2010, 7:10 pm
18/f, ive been with this guy for 8 months now. i can't seem to believe in him, or trust him. he tells me that i'm the only one for him and that i have nothing to worry about, but sometimes i feel like its too good to be true. he tells me he doesnt think anyone else is hot or attractive at all. i dont think thats even possible :/ he's a man, and every guy ive ever been with has cheated on me, except him. before him, every guy i had ever dated has cheated on me. I guess that's where this all started, and now whenever he even says hi to a girl i cant help but get upset. I dont know what to do, i've tried everything. any advice? i know i need help, but i just dont know what to do anymore. i know its not right to get this jealous or upset, bu...
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a girl I like
Posted Wednesday December 8 2010, 6:55 pm
I like a girl that just transferred to my class. I think she likes me but im not sure. I want to go talk to her and find out if she might like me by the signs she gives me when I talk to her and for her to notice me. I just don't know what to say?
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Pregnate with my best friends bf
Posted Wednesday December 8 2010, 6:35 pm
Jake and I used to date. We broke up because we weren't right for each other. Soon after the breakup, I found out I was pregnate. Jake promised to help me when the baby was born. Then I met my BFF, Annie. Annie and Jake are currently dating, and they really like each other. Should I tell her? If so, how?
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why do my ex's friends always like me??
Posted Wednesday December 8 2010, 6:08 pm
Whenever I break up with a guy or vice versa, they're friends always seem to hit on me a few weeks later. Why is this?
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I want him :( But it has been 7 months since we did anything but text!
Posted Wednesday December 8 2010, 4:32 pm
(I am fifteen/F my ex is sixteen/M) My ex and I had a really messy breakup. Right before summer started. Over the summer we both did our share of hurtful stuff. He was a jerk, I was a bitch... so on and so forth. I used to blame the entire relationship failure on him. But looking back on it, I see something completely different. I've realized how much I've changed since we broke up but now... I'm looking bakc and I realize that when I changed was when I was dating him. The last two months I became a different person. I was clingy and stupid and whipped and I honestly can't blame him for a lot of things I used to... When I realized this last weekend we were already on okay ish terms. Not really though. I apologized for all the stuff I jsut e...
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boyfriend's friend wont leave me alone
Posted Wednesday December 8 2010, 10:10 am
so my boyfriend and i have been going out for about four months now and his friend seriously has a thing for me so i told my boyfriend about this and he asked his friend and his friend just made it worse for me and said that i flirt with him this is the second time this has happened with one of my boyfriends friends and the weird thing is that he always believes what they say and i look like the bad one so what do i do about my current situation this guy just won't take no for an answer and it's really causing problems for me and my boyfriend
please help
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Caring or Controlling
Posted Wednesday December 8 2010, 9:34 am
I am a 47 year old man that has been into and out of marriage three times. None of them lasted over a year. I am a recovering alcoholic with two years sobriety. I am dating a wonderful 44 year old woman, Diane, with nine years sobriety. She actively works the program. I do not, but would like to. She has two children.
She has not let me meet them yet (2 months into the relationship) because she wants to take it slow. Here is my problem. I have a problem with overthinking issues. If she doesn't text, I think she doesn't care. If she isn't exhausted after sex, I think I didn't satisfy her. I could go on but I think you get my meaning. I think I have a personality disorder. I am diagnosed depressed and am on medication. I have also be...
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i dont know what to do...or whether to just give up.
Posted Wednesday December 8 2010, 7:30 am
18/female
ok so i had a typical fan girl crush on a guy two years ago ( with the crush lasting for a year) whose in a band thats becoming huge. i had his posters on my wall etc etc. I had met him a couple of times in that year that i liked him. each of those times i got a not so expected reaction from this guy. Every other fan he came into contact with or talked to, he was smiley and bubbly. then he would get to me and just look me up and down, just staring. wouldnt say a word. then after minutes of just standing there without him even so much as smiling at me he will move onto the next girl happy as can be. Confused and annoyed i eventually gave up when every single time i met him he would do the same, even if i talked to hi...
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should I go to my ex's wedding when I know his fiance doesn't want me to?
Posted Wednesday December 8 2010, 5:20 am
I'm 28, female
Ok, so this is a partially love/partially friendship topic so sorry for the long back-story thank you for your time!
My ex-boyfriend (my first love/sex/kiss) and I dated for 5 formative years until we finally fizzled out and decided we needed to date around since at 22 and 23 we felt like an old couple. We honestly stopped being in love but neither of us hurt the other one or cheated or anything-it just died and we're still very close.
We get along extremely well, we can tell each other anything and I often confide in him and seek out his advice-even on relationships! I've always expected that we would remain friends for our entire lives and my current boyfriend of 4 years accept...
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He doesn't text much...
Posted Tuesday December 7 2010, 11:54 pm
So , we use to talk a lot , and now he some how got a job didn't tell me , and he doesn't text me at all anymore... I wait to talk to him all day , and he doesn't call me until I tell him too , or he says he will and never does , and he at the same time asks can I see you this week? And before he'd always be like asking more like want to hang out , why not , and now if i say no its like... its okay , like what's going on? Honestly he doesn't text me at all anymore...
please help
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Is this guy hurting me?
Posted Tuesday December 7 2010, 11:11 pm
So , we have been seeing/dating eachother for a month so far, almost I always go to him and see hima nd spend time on buses just to get to him , and the only time he wanted to meet was in public was the first time , and everytime I went over he wanted to do physical stuff and that's it and he said later he didn't want it to look that's all he wanted, so I trusted him , a bit later after a while he says hes going to work , didn't even tell me where and he said first he's training with the guys at the base and then later doing paperwork as a job for extra money after he said he wouldn't join it ,after I asked he said oh it's just a job for more money , so then I ask him want to go to the store with me? and nothing , he said he has a thumb inj...
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Where to draw the line with a new guy when I already have a Boyfriend?
Posted Tuesday December 7 2010, 10:28 pm
I love my boyfriend very much, we've been dating for a little over a year now. Recently, I've been going to some legal programs as punishment for a small wreck a few months ago. While there, I've met a guy that is really nice. When we first started going, he was really cool and I could tell he was flirting with me but I didn't flirt back because I have a boyfriend and I'd never dream of cheating on him. Anyways, tonight was our last court date and he lives about an hour away so there isn't really a reason for us to see each other anymore. The thing is, I like him a lot as a friend and I'd like to be better friends with him but I don't want anyone to get the wrong impression, especially my boyfriend. After we left the court house, this other...
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Should I move in with my boyfriend?
Posted Tuesday December 7 2010, 9:17 pm
I'm 21 and dating a guy who 28 and is very rich. Him and I are just getting back together again. And he wants me to move in with him into his penthouse downtown. His penthouse is 12 mins. away from my parents house, and I think its way to soon to be moving in with him because we just got back in a relationship with each other in November.What should I do? Should go ahead a move in.Or should I stay at my parents for a little while longer till we develop some time under our belt. need help!!!
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I'm so sexually unsatisfied and bored, and I am curious about exploring other men
Posted Tuesday December 7 2010, 9:06 pm
Alright, I met my boyfriend when I was 15 and I'm now a Freshman in college, so we've been together for 3 years.
I love him. He's a great guy, he's been there for me. He's my first kiss, my first love.. I lost my virginity to him.
The problem is our relationship feels like it's going stale. We don't really do anything adventurous and we certainly don't have any exciting anymore. I've tried getting him to talk about his lack of sexual desire and he just brushes it off. I've tried getting him to take me to do new things but he's brushed that off as well. I've tried mentioning that perhaps we shouldn't see each other every single day so we can retain some excitement when we do get together,but that hasn't seemed to go anywhere ei...
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We both cheated on each other twice: should we break up?
Posted Tuesday December 7 2010, 6:16 pm
17/f me and my boyfriend have been going out for 4 1/2 months, which is pretty long for a high school relationship. he has had alot of other relationships before, he's kind of a player, but i havent had that many. we are sexually active together which makes our relationship even closer and harder to break apart. we have both admitted to cheating on eachother twice. recently we have been fighting alot and he has changed and he is normally really sweet and nice but he is now a complete jerk all the time and he has ditched me all week from hanging out. he is not acting like himself at all. when i talk to him about it he said he was stressed but he would work on it, but nothing ever changes he is still a jerk! and i know he is a player and he t...
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Friendship was great, but dating is going wrong?
Posted Tuesday December 7 2010, 11:33 am
i thought i was in love with my best friend and we had a great relationship but we started to date and now we dont get along at all
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Homewrecker
Posted Tuesday December 7 2010, 10:31 am
Okay so me and this kid had both just gotten out of long relationships and we had both been cheated on. im 17 he's 19 We hung out and we soon started to like eachother. a lot. We were inseperable for about 2 months. We did everything together and i had never been so happy in my entire life. I have always said i dont want to get married, im just too free spirited but this kid i would marry in a heartbeat. Every moment is just perfect with him. well then i noticed he had started to back off a little. i was confused but i know how guys are so i just kept acting the same. Then one day we sat down to talk and he told me that he wasnt over his ex girlfriend and he doesnt think that it is fair to me that he is thinking about us both. Soo we called...
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I messed things up with my friend and now I can't get over him!
Posted Monday December 6 2010, 9:14 pm
16/f
So I like this guy. He's one of my really good friends. He's 18 though. I guess its not too much of an age difference. Well I've liked him for over a year. I had a boyfriend for 10 months and still had a small crush on my friend. After we broke up a few months ago me and my friend told each other we liked each other. So I was pretty happy and kinda amazed. We would text all the time but we didn't exactly talk about anything with us so I kinda just assumed he didn't really like me anymore. He's leaving for college in a couple months anyway but it's not like I'll never see him again.
Well I started liking a guy at school and this guy asked me out and I said yes. So then my friend was all mad and stuff and I...
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