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About kissing guys!
Posted Sunday December 12 2010, 2:14 am
I am so nervous. A couple of days weeks ago this cute guy started to like me and then we started to go out. So far we have only kissed on the lips, and that was very easy. However the other day he started to try and kiss with his tongue. I had no clue what to do so I acted like I had to go. But I know the next time I see him hes going to want to do the same thing again. And I wasn't to! I just don't know how to. Can you help?
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Really paranoid when a guy grabs me...
Posted Sunday December 12 2010, 1:29 am
Hey! I'm a fifteen year old girl, sophomore. Okay well the thing, I have this thing where I get really uncomfortable with people man handling me... Haha I'm around 5'5 and I wiegh a little over a hundred pounds (106?) so I'm not big and I'm not strong. See I wasnt exactly raped but oneof my ex boyfriends did force me to give him a hj and held ne down and fingered me against my will. He also hit me a few times.. Only my closest friends know about this. Its just made me really paranoid when a guy grabs me... I'm scared (irrationally,probably) that they'll do something to me even if it's one of my friends and were out in public.. My immediate response is I just shut down. I basically try to make myself as small as possible and shut my eyes and...
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Confuseddd more thann ever.
Posted Sunday December 12 2010, 1:13 am
Ive known this guy since 6th gradee, and we have dated since then, a little affer last Christmas we were dating&i ended up screwing up andd left him for someone else which was a mistake. We finally started talking these past few weeks or so andd seeing&talking to him made me miss and want him back so much more, but unfortuantley he's dating someone now. I want him to be mine for Christmas again, what should I do?! Could there be any creative or cute ways to get him back?!
Could i please get feedback asap!!
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I'm ready to have sex.. but i don't have a boyfriend?!
Posted Sunday December 12 2010, 12:30 am
I just got out of a relationship where we were planning on having sex. He had me looking forward to it, and now i have no one? I dont know what to do.. all i have is fingering myself. I enjoy it,. but i cant get a toy cause my mom finds everything.. helllp?!
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I'm so confused.....
Posted Saturday December 11 2010, 11:44 am
ok. I'll just tell the story. There's this guy in my health class, and everyday he would always look at me. Not just in health, either. In the hallway(s), and in lunch. Also, in health he would always give me these weird/cute/adorable faces. They were so cute! Anyways, I have this friend, let's call him jimmy (that's not his name, but it's risky to say his name) and he's also friends with mike (again, let's just call him that). Jimmy is VERY good with secrets, AND he's my friend, so I thought I'd tell him. I did. He said that he'd ask mike if he liked anybody, and (apparently) mike said he didnt. Later that day, I was talking to jimmy, and he told me that somehow mike had found out about it, and said that I was ugly and that he would never ...
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Boyfriends and Bestfriends
Posted Saturday December 11 2010, 10:50 am
My boyfriend said he didn't trust me when I got my phone taken away.. He thought I didn't get it taken away because I texted my guy best friend right when I got it back.. But I also texted him...He said he didn't get the message.. And now my guy best friend is trying to make my byfriend jealous by sending me messages like your hot and stuff.. Now their both fighting and I don't know what to do!!!! Can you help?
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opposite sex kiss
Posted Saturday December 11 2010, 1:00 am
is it sinful to kiss the opposite sex.
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There's something more intimidating about this guy and I don't know why!
Posted Saturday December 11 2010, 12:54 am
Hey. I'm a fifteen year old girl, sophomore. I've dated two guys. One for seven months and we did everything but sex (he is a junior, sixteen, we dated last year, reeeally messy break up though). Now I previously just broke up with a guy I dated for three months; just second base (he is a junior, seventeen, I just liked it better when we were friends). Part of why I didn't like him all that much is because I think he's not... Bad boy enough? See... A hookup I like to have the... Not druggie skater punk but more jock bad ass thing going on. Relationship wise I like a guy I can trust, who wont promise what he can't give, but still has that edge to keep me interested. That's just some background to my real question. Im really interested in ge...
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what do i do
Posted Friday December 10 2010, 9:19 pm
this girl i like is moving that what she is saying but in the past she said it but really didnt move she says she want to be with me but her mom wont let her brake up with her bf
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Insecure ? Trust Issues ? Or does bf have a point ?
Posted Friday December 10 2010, 5:13 pm
Okay I made it official with this guy june 18th 2009, last year which in fact was the eptimone of my naiveness, and I was blind to everything as a girl I was easily manipulated etc.. I said yes I'll be your gf on that day, and ever since then weve been really tight like best friends and talk to eachother about pretty much anything including what's considered cheating in a relationship and what guys want from girls .
He says that every guy just want to have sex as first intention and then theyll get to know you
I disagree example: someone hit me up that I knew in elementry on fb I said how are you doing etc .. MY BOYFRIEND GETS MAD saying theres no reason to write to him unless you really want to see how he is...
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is there more to life than just this ?
Posted Friday December 10 2010, 1:23 pm
I constantly strugle with lifes demands .I work two jobs and I find myself always on everybodys time but my own .I have to work two jobs just to make it .and the economy sucks right now iv been looking for a better job but I'm always over qualifide .and I'm too tired physicaly and emotionaly drained .I took a week off from one job on vacation .and I couldn't even get out of bed to do anything .sometimes I feel like just giving up .but I still keep shuveling the shit that I'm delt every day .its to the point where I hate coustomers because they won't leave me alone .I know that sounds pathetic but its the truth .I finde myself hateing myself .and just don't want to deal with it anymore but I have too .I have to force myself out of bed just t...
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My boyfriend's mom thinks we're having sex
Posted Friday December 10 2010, 2:10 am
18/f and my boyfriend is 15
Well me and my boyfriend decided we would abstain from having sex. We've been dating for 7 months now and most of the time everything is great. While we may not be having sex we still do other things (pretty much everything but actual intercourse). His mom has come home and seen us messing around in my car before he went in the house and just told him later that she understands how it is but he needs to wait to have sex and he said we were so it sounds like problem solved. Well not really because he's been a few minutes late for curfew lately and apparently the other night she told him to "be careful in what he chooses to do because some things you cant take back" i think he thought she was talki...
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Anyone else in a long distance relationship?
Posted Thursday December 9 2010, 9:59 pm
so im 17 yrs old from canada. im in a long distnace relationship with a guy who is also 17 and lives in the usa. 9 hrs and 36 min away from me. We talk every day on skype and have been for 10 months. We love eachother to death! we have so many things in common and even our birthdays are right after eachother. My family knows about him as well as his about me. my dad has talked to him and i have in ways talked to his. He plans on coming up here in the summer for a couple weeks to see me cause we have never meet in person. ...he just hasnt got the ok from his parents yet...and i really hope they say yes.
What im really askin here is, its the hardest thing i have ever done, parents arent really for it and some friends arent eie...
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Reading His Signals
Posted Thursday December 9 2010, 1:43 pm
I recently began a new relationship. I met a guy towards the end of October, which I know isn't that long ago, and we are still seeing each other now.
Of course we went through the honeymoon phase and are kind of still in it at times, but we have started to get comfortable with each other so things have calmed down. We have a lot of things in common and we get along great. We rag on each other about the sports teams that we like but we like to watch the games together. Our personailties are different, I definitely talk a lot more and love to meet new people where as he is comfortable with his friends he has now.
In the beginning he sent me all kinds of messages about how much he liked me and spending time with...
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What do I do? before, we had each other.Now, he has her and I have no one.
Posted Thursday December 9 2010, 5:21 am
I fell in love with my best friend. I didn't tell him because I know he doesn't like me that way. The problem is he says he's in love with this girl, Grace, who our whole gang knows is not the right girl for him-she drinks,she smokes and she's not that bright- but he seems too blinded to realize.
He doesn't hang out with us anymore, it seems like he doesn't even care. Even my other guy friends notice that. The painful part for me is that, I have to watch them every single day.How he looks at her how he acts around her and every single time, it's like a part of me dies.
I asked others what I should do, and they always say that I should tell him how I feel. But the thing is I can't. I'm too afraid that it'll jus...
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To end it or not to end it
Posted Thursday December 9 2010, 3:47 am
Hey, I'm an 18 year old female. I've been dating my boy for about 5 months now. We were friends for about a year or so before we started dating. I always had something for the boy. When we first started dating it was like a dream (Like any other starting of a relationship). We were both so eager to see each other.. and just so in love. It never changed for me until recently.
He's been so.. distant. Not only that, but every time I bring up a problem, it's more of a problem that I did. He just doesn't get it. I know he has work and college and I respect that, but I try to see him as much as I can. Which is usually once or twice a week. And some days he'll make up excuses not to see me. I love the kid, I really do. He's amazing....
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should i tell him i like him
Posted Thursday December 9 2010, 2:11 am
UtIm17 and I'm a junior in hs and there's his Guy who is constantly staring at me he started doing this since the beginning of the year and he doesn't only stare during English class he also stares while we are walking to class and he used to look away when he knew I caught him staring but now he makes eye contact and I think he was talking with his friend about me cause I saw him poining at me once But other than the. Staring there was this one time he played a joke on me and he was staring at me with his eyes wide open with a smile on his face he also has tried to bump into me once or twice when he could go a different way.my friends all say he likes me and say he's only too shy to talk to me and they want me to tell him I like him this ...
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Open Relationship Disaster
Posted Thursday December 9 2010, 1:10 am
I am The husband of a wonderful and understanding wife. As i write this i feel it necessary to inform all of you of a few things first. I am not a religious person I have my own faiths about god and morality but as open minded as I try to be I am at a loss and am coming to you all as a last resort.
My wife and I had discussed for a long time the possibility of including other people in are sex life and before long it became a reality. We stepped in to a new experience unaware of the out come. Are experience was with another couple, people we trusted, people that we knew would be open to the idea. Initially I was the one to bring it up but without hesitation everyone jumped at the idea. In the end we had swapped partners. The first ...
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how do i get rid of him but still be a friend?
Posted Wednesday December 8 2010, 11:55 pm
okay so over the summer i had a "thing" with this guy. then it ended and one of his friends started talking to me about why it ended and blahblah. then he got my number from somewhere and started to text me more and more. i kinda just went along with it cause i like to text haha. i kind of regret it now because he texts me ALL THE TIME and won't leave me alone. like if i don't answer for 5 minutes he'll just keep texting me until i answer and its really annoying. i'm nice to him though and i do text him back most of the time. i want him to back off a little but i do work with him so i want to keep things cool. how can i do this without being mean?
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Posted Wednesday December 8 2010, 11:12 pm
So I asked because he never answers my questions he at least texts me once a day for the past 2 weeks and he never tells me whats going on so i said '' well if this is how you are going to treat me , im done this isnt stable'' and hes like did you ever stop to think i was busy? someone i knew died today dajana i was just not in the mood to talk to anyone. the last thing i need right now is you bring insecure?
what does that mena?
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